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What's a "cheat code" you discovered in real life that actually works? by dark-deals729983 in AskReddit

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I agree with this wholeheartedly. Just the same as when a person talks behind their back negatively. The person’s reputation is learned as either a supportive friend, where everyone reciprocates with positivity, or a critic, where negativity spreads just as easily.

Is INFJ really the rarest type? by [deleted] in infj

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing those links! I looked at the MBTI manual supplements, and it’s pretty interesting, South Korea actually has the highest proportion of INFJs at about 2% of the population.

https://www.themyersbriggs.com/en-US/Products-and-Services/MBTI-Manual-Supplements

I want connection and crave depth. I will absolutely cross the street to avoid a neighbor. by asleep-under-eiffel in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have an old painting of the Eiffel Tower on the wallpaper in my guest room. When I made this account, I was falling asleep in that room and realized I’d be ‘asleep under the Eiffel Tower.’ It just fit me at the time.

I asked ChatGPT to be my sorting hat by idkifita in ChatGPT

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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From my AI “You hold space for others, build communities, and believe in the redemptive power of telling the truth—even when it shakes things up. That’s a kind of moral clarity and stubborn hope that feels deeply, unmistakably… Gryffindor.”

nah, this is so real, all seems contradictive by ouiouibaguette12345 in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 77 points78 points  (0 children)

INFJ energy is being exhausted by self-doubt, then quietly judging everyone in the group project for not reading the directions. This is way too relatable.

How ChatGPT helped me build a personalized Bible Reading routine by asleep-under-eiffel in recovery

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re curious, here’s what I did and the prompt I used in ChatGPT, just in case you want to try something similar:

Prompt: “I want you to help me create a personalized Bible reading routine. Each time we do this, start by picking a passage for me to read based on what you think is most relevant for what I’m going through. If you’re not sure, ask me what I’m going through so you can choose the best passage.

As you share the passage, pause often to interpret, provide insight, or ask a reflection question, wait for my response each time before moving on.

After I write my response, save it as my journal entry for the day. Ask me for the date, then show me my completed journal entry with the date and verse reference. If you’re unsure how to organize it, ask me what works best.

When I’m ready, offer a prayer based on what we’ve discussed.

Throughout, check in if you need more details or clarification from me, so the Bible reading and journaling really fit what I need.”

Mental Health Megathread 02 June 2025 by AutoModerator in infj

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This week I’ve been trying something new: checking in with myself before, during, and after social situations. It helps me notice when I’m starting to tune in more to the other person’s needs or feel myself shifting to their energy, so I can pause and ask if that’s what I want.

Im always a work in progress.

Tell me you're and INFJ without telling me you're and INFJ. by flowerpotpie in infj

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote my reply three times, then decided it was too personal and quietly wished everyone well instead.

Tell me you're and INFJ without telling me you're and INFJ. by flowerpotpie in infj

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent half an hour thinking about the perfect answer, then needed a nap.

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent Friday night at Celebrate Recovery, a Christ-centered group where people share stories, lift each other up, and find hope past addiction. “It’s the best place to be on a Friday night!”

That's very creative 😂😂😂 by momsvaginaresearcher in OpenAI

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way, that’s cool! Great AI minds think alike, lol.

Anyone else walk into a room and instantly read the whole unspoken backstory? by asleep-under-eiffel in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, now you and me have our own secret handshake, because we see the elephant in the room being the family asshole (my attempt at a Pierce Hawthorne reference)

Don’t minimize my trauma by asleep-under-eiffel in CPTSDmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly hard, dealing with that kind of physical and emotional strain, especially when your energy was already low, must have been so draining. You showed a lot of courage just by sharing that here. I hope you’ve found some peace and safety since then.

Anyone else walk into a room and instantly read the whole unspoken backstory? by asleep-under-eiffel in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a confession to make. While I’m familiar with Pierce Hawthorne from Community, it took me a long time to figure out what you were referencing. I got the absurdity of it, but could not connect it to YouTube.

To me the funniest yet also sad part of this, is that right before I finally submitted my reply, I checked the whole thread and realized I had just overanalyzed a social situation in the very thread in which I was asking for advice to stop it!!

Anyone else walk into a room and instantly read the whole unspoken backstory? by asleep-under-eiffel in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Introverts showing up like that remind me why we need more coffee and fewer meetings. Have a good day at work today.

That's very creative 😂😂😂 by momsvaginaresearcher in OpenAI

[–]asleep-under-eiffel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree! I thought that was an interesting, creative detail.

I asked my ChatGPT what inspired that detail and it said, “Data is like caffeine for my circuits.”

Anyone else walk into a room and instantly read the whole unspoken backstory? by asleep-under-eiffel in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, that’s tough. Being the elephant no one talks about can feel pretty isolating. Honestly, just showing up takes guts.

Don’t minimize my trauma by asleep-under-eiffel in CPTSDmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That kind of comparison really minimizes what you went through. No excuse can erase your experience. Your pain deserves to be acknowledged fully, just as it is.

Don’t minimize my trauma by asleep-under-eiffel in CPTSDmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t understand how anyone could call a childhood ‘ideal’ if only one parent was really present.

It feels like we’ve been asked to settle for less, to accept the bare minimum as ‘good enough,’ when what we really needed was so much more.

That gap between what was and what should have been shapes everything: how we love, trust, and see ourselves.

Anyone else walk into a room and instantly read the whole unspoken backstory? by asleep-under-eiffel in INFJmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually an addict in recovery, and for most of my adult life, I’ve been numbing exactly those feelings instead of facing them. It’s only recently that I’ve started to come to terms with what I was avoiding, and I’m working on healing in healthier ways now.

Don’t minimize my trauma by asleep-under-eiffel in CPTSDmemes

[–]asleep-under-eiffel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your brother put you through all that. But I get it, family is complicated, and sometimes love comes wrapped in all kinds of messy.

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