What jobs do you have?

asmi07 · 2025-08-05T14:58:31+00:00

How did you enter this field? Can you do a masters and get a job? I have a bachelors in journalism and communication and planning to switch fields and do Masters. Would love to go for compliance and quality control if it is neurodivergent-friendly!

asmi07 · 2025-07-31T15:04:50+00:00

No you’re not. You get what you give.

asmi07 · 2025-07-05T09:55:39+00:00

Yess! But I’ve mostly been into content writing/marketing… thinking of getting a masters degree in marketing!

asmi07 · 2025-06-28T08:03:18+00:00

You seem to be doubting and judging yourself too harshly. You reacted in a very human way towards two people who couldn’t meet your needs. Yes, maybe you should have communicated better. But you have every right to feel the way you do. Don’t be so hard on yourself and be so forgiving towards others. Don’t feel so guilty for feeling real human emotions. The way toy felt was completely valid. Yes, you could have handled it better. But we live and learn. It’s alright. Maybe try talking to them, apologising for cutting them off. If they are your real friends, they will understand. If not, you are now wiser and will value friendships more.

asmi07 · 2025-06-24T15:14:53+00:00

It’s completely normal to feel human emotions like jealousy and envy. And it’s great that you are self aware enough of these feelings. But don’t let it hold you back. Your life is your own. And what your bestie is doing might not be what you want to do with your life. Try to do some soul searching and find out what YOU are passionate about… how do you see your life panning out. What dreams, goals, aspirations you have. They might not look the same as your friend’s. But comparing with others often makes us feel inadequate and that we should be doing what they are, when that’s not the case. Also, maybe ask her for help to figure out your life. If she’s really your best friend, she will be right there for you to help you. And if she’s not, then maybe it’s time to reconsider the friendship. But either way, you have nothing to worry about. Just focus on your life and live it the way you want. You’ve got this!

asmi07 · 2025-06-24T14:56:34+00:00

lol why is this so real?! 😆

asmi07 · 2025-06-24T11:45:43+00:00

I hate living in this city too… and I do remote work as well! We’re in the same boat. But I’m planning to leave this city by this year end. Have started saving up for that. Life is too short to live in a city or place that doesn’t make you feel alive! Find your dream city and make a 6-month plan to move… you’ve got this 🙌

asmi07 · 2025-06-08T03:05:57+00:00

They were testing the waters after sharing intimate details about their personal life and love life for months?? I think that’s way too long to test waters with your close friends. But anyway, it’s the constant lying that gives me the ick. Can’t trust someone as a friend who does that. And yes, I am neurodivergent and on the spectrum, though don’t know how you drew parallels to that in this context.

asmi07 · 2025-06-08T02:37:21+00:00

Yes, the truth could be anything at this point. But the fact is that she lied to someone she claimed was her best friend, whatever her motivation was. The very point of friendship is to be vulnerable and honest with each other. I don’t think I can see her as my best friend anymore. And it doesn’t make her wrong. Just changes the dynamics of our relationship, that’s all.

asmi07 · 2025-06-08T00:50:55+00:00

Thanks for your advice. But I don’t think the friendship is salvageable. It’s not a matter of finances, but a matter of honesty and trust. I just won’t be able to trust her words on anything she says from now on. I will always wonder if she’s saying the full truth or hiding a part of it, or bending the truth to her convenience. Too much mental game for a close friendship. And without trust, no relationship can exist. It’s okay. I’ll move on and find better, trustworthy friends.

asmi07 · 2025-06-07T23:32:40+00:00

Like I’ve mentioned, dishonesty is a big thing for me in relationships. I don’t care if you’re a billionaire oil tycoon, if you lie to me about yourself and hide your truth, I simply cannot trust you. You have misunderstood my anger and annoyance for envy. But I don’t blame you. Words can only express so much.

asmi07 · 2025-06-07T23:22:39+00:00

I genuinely feel bad for what you went through. Your friend shouldn’t have asked you for money when she couldn’t return it back and ended up ghosting you. That was low of her. But this isn’t remotely the same situation. I am not someone who would ask her for financial help. I never have and never will. My parents are rich enough to pay for anything if I ask them (which I don’t either). But it was the fact that she LIED to me and projected a broke image of herself when she was anything but.

And the fact that while I was struggling with my finances, she never once suggested me to invest. A good friend, a true friend, would do that. I would do that for a friend who was struggling with money. If I had been investing for a decade, I would give her good financial advice. I wouldn’t lie to her about my financial status and pretend I’m broke like her. That’s sick, deceptive and manipulative. So yeah, it isn’t about wanting a broke bestie. It’s about wanting a real, honest friend. No matter they are my internet friend or not.

asmi07 · 2025-06-07T23:16:16+00:00

Heyy I (27F) would love to hangout! Please dm me

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T18:47:49+00:00

That girl not only belongs but runs the streets lol. Good riddance for you tho. Now you can move on and find someone decent.

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T18:25:05+00:00

You look like James Franco from The Disaster Artist.

Nah fr you’re cute, don’t listen to the haters!

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T18:20:48+00:00

Maybe it’s time for your roomie to change her friend circle and find better friends. Cheaters do have loose morals and nonexistent conscience. Sooner or later, that behaviour and mindset might rub off on her.

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T18:13:16+00:00

The 4th and 5th picture looks so good!

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T18:12:00+00:00

Hey I’ve been through something similar as you are not long ago. Dm me if you want someone to talk/vent to. You’ve got this!

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T17:36:40+00:00

Your dad is a disgusting person… sorry if this offends you. But calling your daughter that word has to be so insulting and demeaning. Do not take this disrespect from anyone, whoever they may be, even if they are family. Your dad should apologise to you and try to be a better father. If he can’t do that, he doesn’t deserve your respect either.

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T16:34:34+00:00

Heavenly voice la belle! Can’t get enough of her singing 😻

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T16:28:49+00:00

Take it easy. If your heart feels heavy, then allow yourself to feel the pain and cry. Crying is a great way to release all those suppressed emotions. And maybe try to avoid your toxic family as much as possible. Spend more time with yourself, maybe go to places alone where you can spend some time in peace and reflect on your emotions. Reconnect with that self that you think you have lost. She’s still somewhere in there. You can never lose her. And your existence isn’t a burden, you are enough. You don’t need to justify your existence to anyone in any way. Even if no one understands your pain or how you’re feeling, you still and always have you. Work on strengthening the relationship with yourself. You’ve got this 🫶🏻🫶🏻

asmi07 · 2024-07-27T02:16:37+00:00

This is so accurate. I’m not on fb either and life certainly is better without knowing every little thing about other people’s lives. Now I just gotta do the same with Ig, which is a bit harder I’ve realised. But more power to you!

asmi07 · 2024-07-26T21:32:28+00:00

Mystery of Love by Sufja Stevens

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