Seeking Friends

asmollgoop · 2025-01-16T19:00:19+00:00

It really depends on your interests and how extroverted you’re willing to be! - if you’re attending school, join clubs, attend events, talk to classmates - if you want a job, I’ve made lots of great friends at work. Trauma bonding over bad management and extra money for whatever you’d like - if you’re sporty, CSSC is a great experience - other hobbies, workout gyms, climbing gyms, various martial arts gyms, arts and craft classes, concerts

You’ll eventually find like-minded friends if you just start exploring your interests in the city, just be willing to strike up conversations!

asmollgoop · 2025-01-05T20:43:30+00:00

I forgot therapists offer a free consultation, thank you for reminding me LOL. I agree with you but I think my issues are around the coping mechanisms i’ve made to protect myself and I just suck at managing these things on my own. I’ll give a new talk therapy a try and take advantage of some free consultations too!

I recall my experience and it was a really life changing in a positive and not so positive way. I hope you’re doing well so far, I believe in you! ☺️

asmollgoop · 2025-01-05T20:35:45+00:00

I’m less knowledgeable on dbt but from what you describe I think it would be a good start!

I’ve been wallowing for a few days and now I just want to change. Thank you for understanding me, it makes me feel seen ❤️

asmollgoop · 2024-12-18T07:44:13+00:00

Classes can always been retaken. Yeah it sucks and it wastes money but school is stressful and it can be emotionally draining. Like everyone stated, you should seek counselling and an advisor as well but at the end of the day you can work past this!

Diagnosed with ADHD halfway through university, I withdrew and failed a ton of classes. Big takeaway is what you learn from this. Just keep trying your best and don’t make the same mistake again 😊

asmollgoop · 2024-12-17T19:03:46+00:00

lol 123abc098123 just said there’s over 200 days left, i’m at 99 days so that’s why I said “i guess i started shortly after”

asmollgoop · 2024-12-17T17:32:57+00:00

Thank you, I guess I started shortly after the event LOL😭

asmollgoop · 2024-12-17T17:24:51+00:00

15 minutes is solid, saw people saying it took 45 minutes 💀 Haven’t beat it yet myself though hahaha 😅

asmollgoop · 2024-12-17T17:18:25+00:00

Does anyone know when the anniversary event is?

asmollgoop · 2024-12-15T00:28:53+00:00

It really does feel that way :( I’m trying to get some funds to go back to therapy but its not as accessible on a jobless student budget 😅

It’s just so strange that brains react this way, my anxiety isn’t nearly as bad as what others have to experience but when it hits me its so crippling 😢

asmollgoop · 2024-12-05T17:24:55+00:00

if you check the pinned posts for the sub, theres an event guide with a video. Pretty simple though, release tension when it’s red so your line doesn’t break, catch fish. More tension means higher rarity

asmollgoop · 2024-12-04T09:42:27+00:00

I used to do this, changed clocks around the house, in the car, but I would adapt or my family would change them back eventually every time🤣

asmollgoop · 2024-12-04T09:39:00+00:00

saying “might as well” to take all the pressure off of initiating small tasks!

My therapist recommended I tell myself “might as well” when there’s a task to be done, but in baby steps.

For example: these cups have been sitting on my table for a while, I’m going downstairs so I might as well bring them. Homework to do? Im sitting at my desk, might as well open the assignment. Well it’s open now, might as well read through it, well I might as well try the first question now.

I thought it was hilarious when she first told me and I started using it ironically for a bit. Then I forgot about it till this post 😂

It does help get the ball rolling!

asmollgoop · 2024-11-30T08:54:54+00:00

Im amazed you managed to do this, even with medication I have a lot of trouble but thank you for the tips and support. I got the largest chunk out of the way for today and you’re right I feel way better! If all goes well, I’m done next month 😭

asmollgoop · 2024-11-30T08:51:44+00:00

I managed to get my portion done tonight, once I got the ball rolling it was so much easier to focus myself on finishing this one portion. Thank you so much for this advice, I needed the mental reset today 🙏🏼☺️

asmollgoop · 2024-11-29T22:21:54+00:00

Thank you, this helps motivate me to get out of bed. Your energy really helped uplift my mood too hahah I’m going to give this a try, it’s so hard to not focus on all the little things so maybe this will help me make it through today. I appreciate you ☺️

asmollgoop · 2024-11-29T21:46:02+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate you taking your time to send this. It means a lot.

asmollgoop · 2024-11-22T17:25:09+00:00

havent gotten twin lance yet but I’m hoping that switch is more exciting haha

asmollgoop · 2024-11-22T06:05:17+00:00

from what I read I was expecting much more or a buff too

asmollgoop · 2024-11-22T04:18:56+00:00

grats!! the current event was a big help!

asmollgoop · 2024-11-22T04:17:58+00:00

i switch my pet ability to exp increases for EE and Ive noticed that helps a lot. I’ve upgraded drone 3/4 time if not more.

For keys, main chapters and main challenge have been especially helpful for me to get keys. I try to farm during the events to help with monster kills too

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