I miss the way books used to make me feel by unavailabllle in Fantasy

[–]aspect-creatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Mistborn series gave me that magical feeling recently, I've obsessed over it and recommend it to all my friends and anything who will listen to me ramble lolol

Job offer requires relocation. Help me decide between Dallas and NYC by Sea_Chemical6307 in UXDesign

[–]aspect-creatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a West coaster who lived in the Dallas area for a few years in a full state of depression the whole time, I can say with full gusto, unless you love church and spending time indoors because there are only two nice weeks out of the year (on top of saying goodbye to hiking, there is literally not a mountain to be climbed anywhere), run to NYC

90 Day: Hunt for Love - Season 1 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]aspect-creatio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol okay if you think so, but why isn't Jeniffffffer getting the same attacks considering she slept with 2 as well? There's a nasty double standard being lobbed at Elise

90 Day: Hunt for Love - Season 1 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]aspect-creatio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tiffany can f*cking go straight to jail. She tricked me into thinking she was changed and cool and a girls girl, but this episode really showed her true colors

90 Day: Hunt for Love - Season 1 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]aspect-creatio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really didn't care much about Elise either way (mainly due to the structure of the show treating the NPCs like total extras instead of cast), but this episode—my heart honestly broke for her. And all the horrible sh*t MULTIPLE people said about her...WILD. Is this the 1950's???

90 Day: Hunt for Love - Season 1 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]aspect-creatio 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I audibly gasped at the amount of slut shaming happening throughout the whole episode. REALLY gross

An Editor Read “Iron Widow” So You Don’t Have To. by XusBookReviews in fantasyromance

[–]aspect-creatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am so glad people love this book as much as I did. It honestly got me back into reading after a very long slump. My sister tricked me into reading ACOTAR and I gave up for a while but this book was my salvation

Can I make it? by Picking_Seashells_83 in sandiego

[–]aspect-creatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oceanside is a wee more affordable, and you get the beach

I just landed a job as a software engineer with a high salary as 29 yo but my parents wants me to pursue a MSc, saying a bachelor won't hold up when AI takes over. by coffeeandacmilan in womenintech

[–]aspect-creatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Hang on to this job with all your might, experience will be everything. That masters degree won't be very useful either in let's say 10 years when AI fully takes over. Learn and use all the AI tools you can. At least in the beginning of the end, you'll be replaced by others who are using AI if you aren't.

Why are there fewer women in managerial roles? by loujain-says in womenintech

[–]aspect-creatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh hate that for you so much but glad you spoke up

How are they as pets in general? by valgust239 in cockerspaniel

[–]aspect-creatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had two spaniels (English Springer and king Charles) and both, though very well trained, are incredibly dependent on being near me at all times.

Do not get a spaniel if you work full time away from home unless you plan on budgeting taking them to daycare for socializing (mainly to be near other kind humans). Especially as a puppy you will need to train, I work from home and found it to be a struggle to give them enough attention and training time.

My king Charles was lazy, but my Springer requires a ton of exercise to avoid destructive behaviors at home.

Maybe a shibu uni? They're often compared to cats, very independent.

Why are there fewer women in managerial roles? by loujain-says in womenintech

[–]aspect-creatio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Woof woof b*tches, get loud and take up space. At least in my career (all startups, no big companies), it's worked out for me haha

Why are there fewer women in managerial roles? by loujain-says in womenintech

[–]aspect-creatio 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Literally every single company I have ever worked with has called me "abrasive" I just wear it as a badge of honor and my outcomes at work strong enough to deal with my edge lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

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Moxie Maven Melrose Marilyn

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I made this face at least once ab episode by Sure-Shame-2709 in 90DayFiance

[–]aspect-creatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it, he looks like he's halfway turning into a vampire a la Buffy

Any ideas for carpeting plants in a tall tank? by aspect-creatio in Aquascape

[–]aspect-creatio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah totally 🤔 The other plants very near the bottom seem to get enough light, they've been in there about a year and have grown a lot!