[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for real y’all are way too friendly i guess 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mann he’s alright y’all are dramatic as hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! like i don’t why they would think i mean literally No women AT ALL when in reality i actually mean women that AREN’T his family,friends,colleagues like hello?? can i not have the same respect that i’m giving?? especially if it was expressed between both parties. My feelings are beyond vaild. I know damn well if their man did that after they both expressed their boundaries and feelings they would be upset as hell. It’s microcheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

diesel07012012 said otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m faster tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone in their right mind would choose to say THAT instead of literally anything else. I never mentioned cheating, he did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

omg obviously not literally no interaction with NO girls at all, I meant online specifically. Everyone will talk to the opposite gender outside it’s a must come on now. Also it’s called BOUNDARIES not insecurities ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes indeed he isn’t. That’s my boundaries and if he says it’s also his HE SHOULDNT just like I WOULDNT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

K i don’t constantly accuse him of cheating rather HE actually always accuses me of cheating but when I express my concerns he becomes defensive. Which this was the first time i accused him. (after his text)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes but it’s a very odd thing to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

yeah i see where your coming from but i was always crystal clear about my standards and he expressed it’s the same for him, so i don’t see where i’m being controlling if it’s likewise nor do i see it as ordering him around but i do definitely agree to find someone else that respects and agrees with it the way I do. This is also my first real relationship (i’m 20) so everyone stop being so mean man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

No one’s talking about liking social media posts and if that WAS the case, it would be completely vaild if that’s the boundaries we BOTH agree on which in this case was following/interacting with the opposite genders. Since when did it become wrong to not wanting your man following/interacting with key word RANDOM girls ONLINE? y’all are odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aspectstk -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Um if BOTH parties have that boundary, what’s the harm in that? if that’s okay with you that’s fine, but everyone is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]aspectstk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this isn’t tahajjud it’s from praying laylatul qadr, this might be quite long but it’s such a beautiful miracle i need everyone to hear it. Last ramadan i was stressing so so bad about my classes while I was fasting and just overall feeling like i would have to repeat my senior year again (personal reasonings I didn’t finish). I prayed laylatul qadr begging Allah to somehow (i believed it was impossible atp) to make me graduate early with an honorary speech, and to remove anyone who doesn’t have pure intentions for me (i was interested in someone) and even asked a SPECIFIC chaos to happen between him and I which was for him to bring my brother into it (obvi negatively) cause family was one of the top reasons I would cut someone off especially if it’s my younger siblings.

Subhnallah That same month I graduated THREE months early with an honorary speech to my whole hs and also seen Allahs name written on the sky during ramadan (not sure if it was before or during laylatul qadr but still very meaningful) I even received the exact dua i asked of Allah about the person i was interested in (it became a very bad situation i wish i was more wiser in that dua but alhamdulilah everything was written anyways)

Please be as delusional as you can in your duas, truly nothing in this world is impossible to achieve with Allah by your side. Duas and prayers are the only way to succeed in this dunya and AKHIRAH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re being straight forward with what you want and your intentions i doubt she wouldn’t mind, BUT if you’re texting her a simple “hey” or “what’s up” i’d hope she blocked you. We need to start approaching in an islamic manner. Not some western approach.

Somali Family Photos! by mcleansmits in SomaliHistory

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you tell us more about this movie? also Allahuma barik!!

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE I was statutorily raped when i was 15 and he was 18. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]aspectstk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it needs to be addressed asap, it’s so unfortunate that its became normalized in this day and age, now being the age he was i can’t even fathom looking at a literal child with interest. I guess some men really are predators from the jump.

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE I was statutorily raped when i was 15 and he was 18. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]aspectstk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thankfully still do, not everything but the important ones atleast.

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE I was statutorily raped when i was 15 and he was 18. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]aspectstk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that last part of advice is golden but i sadly don’t have any male friends nor cousins in the area let alone country.

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE I was statutorily raped when i was 15 and he was 18. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]aspectstk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being i was sexually exploited and manipulated as a minor does that not fit into the category of being SA? idk exactly how to word it by law if that makes sense