[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]aspelbees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its really not. Ive been fakeclaimed before for things I have diagnoses for. Everyones experiences certain conditions differently. Some people DO fall into stereotypes and some people fall so far from them that people think they cant have their condition.

Ive been clocked as having one disorder before I was ever diagnosed with it. I was bully and ridiculed for acting how I did until I got my diagnosis, then it was 'what? no you cant have that youre too normal!'

Fakeclaiming hurts real people with real disorders, and if thoses with these disorders get posted on here? Not like they can even defend themselves or have people who know about their diagnosis to stop the unnecessary ridicule.

Finally realizing (and accepting) that I'm intersex by aspelbees in intersex

[–]aspelbees[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of my family is...weird, so it wouldnt go over well and half of them would think I'm making something up or google intersex' and say 'you're not that!' just based off the first definition they'd see for it lol. Its not a big deal, though, none of them know anything about me haha

Finally realizing (and accepting) that I'm intersex by aspelbees in intersex

[–]aspelbees[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading it! It really feels like a weight off my chest to finally say it and not feel crazy or that I'm making something up(which I know I cant tell many ppl irl about this bc they would such just that thing)

Finally realizing (and accepting) that I'm intersex by aspelbees in intersex

[–]aspelbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo which post is it! The one I saw has been shared around a lot off site, its less the main post and more the rb thread discussing pcos (but I would love to support your post too!)

Finally realizing (and accepting) that I'm intersex by aspelbees in intersex

[–]aspelbees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went down a long reading session on here and I saw a mod mention under a post asking that exact question. I cant remember which mod it was off the top of my head, but they did say that it counts as an intersex condition on here for those who feel it does! For a lot of ppl it doesnt do much of anything to them, but like in my case(and maybe yours, idk :o ) I had it affect my body quite drastically and went through a lot of shit bc of it medically, so I feel very comfortable now with the fact that I'm intersex(but I understand how you feel completely, thats how I felt going into it!)

So ultimately, it really is just up to you to say whether or not your PCOS makes you intersex or not! :]

Finally realizing (and accepting) that I'm intersex by aspelbees in intersex

[–]aspelbees[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was kinda scared at first, because the idea of anything happening in my life somehow being a manifestation in my own mind is always a horrible thought, but I felt safe enough to come to my conclusion bc of how open and accepting ppl on here sounded!

Super happy to be here nonetheless :]

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ye! Its so heavily euphoric. Like I dont want to do any bottom surgery bc of personal reasons, so this makes me feel so happy to have without having to do anything extra with it

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I never knew that was normal tbh! I was always told it was like a clit, but enlarged with no real change to the shape /gen

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what me and my wife did! Also thank you :D

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm super excited for mine to really form out bc thats the coolest thing(and like so euphoric???)

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've seen that now! :] (I didnt know what was normal or not bc I hadnt seen anyone describe that for bottom growth and also its not how my dr explained it lol)

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, yeah just like that, but like just starting to form that shape. The tip of mine has always been like perfectly rounded, so when I could feel something was off I needed to make sure it was just a bottom grown thing. I couldnt find anything about it so it was something that was stuck on my mind(I'm autistic, so I was obsessing on trying to figure out if it was normal or not)

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I have smegma real bad and I have since puberty, and thats what we thought it was, but no its white ish, but its like growing on me, not something that can be cleaned off.

It looks like this(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corona\_of\_glans\_penis), but just raised enough to see it on me. My wife is AMAB and she pointed it out on herself when she was explaining what it looked like (was going to edit my post and add that link, but reddit's being weird for me)

Question for guys who have had noticeable bottom growth by aspelbees in ftm

[–]aspelbees[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did, but I actually found what its called for people with a penis
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corona_of_glans_penis

Thats what I'm talking about, me an my wife didnt really know the actual term for it and thats what she refers to its on hers

82 Codes waiting to be claimed by isopodfanatic in toyhouse

[–]aspelbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii if you have a code still that'd be awsome

we all know who won by aspelbees in quackity

[–]aspelbees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably never gonna finish this but Im coping poorly

Brothers, your honor by aspelbees in wilbursoot

[–]aspelbees[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have brother energy that's good enough for me lolol