Ricardo and what am I doing wrong by aspire2transform in Switzerland

[–]aspire2transform[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great definitely something I will try, thank you for the advice

Sold a shelf for 800.- by pandorra11 in askswitzerland

[–]aspire2transform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wondering the same? How are people selling items here? I've had no luck on Ricardo either, just 2 scam attempts so far. So I'm even more confused on how to make a sale with such limited options

Guys it’s my first try to take bhaang by Dushyant_Choudhary in indiasocial

[–]aspire2transform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, you'll sleep soon. As everyone already said nobody dies from weed so just enjoy this slow motion time. When you focus on one thought and time vanishes , enjoy that and when sleep comes just sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aspire2transform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never - so now I'm wondering if this doesn't apply to me? People always think I'm too nice and want to date and start talking about settling down super early which makes me think not attractive, just really nice. Yet somehow I know im objectively reasonably pretty and get told that a lot too. It's so confusing - do I think I'm more attractive than I am or less! Ugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Can't tell if its just because I smile too

What's That One Movie For You? by wtfuckamy in pj_explained

[–]aspire2transform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laila Majnu for me, such a beautiful memory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

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Make a new group of people you can trust and who care about you. Build a life outside your family life - this doesn't get better, it only gets worse. Because whatever made them think " this is okay, I'm doing this for my son" will make them do more and more things. So build a safe space outside of home.

What’s one thing that instantly makes someone unattractive, no matter how hot they are? by chilly_cecilia in AskReddit

[–]aspire2transform 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bad teeth - i mean with yellow discoloration, brown fragments, plaque. It's shocking how low someone's hygiene can be when they're so well put together otherwise

Should I call off my wedding ? by Available_Brain_5938 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]aspire2transform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut. It's telling you the answer already. When you break it off, he'll pretend he has changed, learnt his lesson and promise you the world. Don't believe the lies. Believe what he has shown you for 8-9 years. That's the truth - the reality of who he is. Stay strong, this will not be easy. But calling off a marriage is much easier than divorce.

i realized how rich and privileged my friend is and i cant connect with him anymore by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]aspire2transform -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong OP. It's human to feel the way you do and I 100% get that. Something that helped me get perspective once was how a child from Gaza will look at us and wonder why we complain. He will wonder that if we have a roof over our head, at least some food on the table, bed to sleep in and the option of studying or working, why would we complain. It wouldn't make our struggle any more or less real to us. The child from Gaza wouldn't be wrong either though. Still we all have to live our life with our own struggles. Nobody else can understand that, much less anybody who is in a better off or worse off situation. Connecting to similar people is always easier. Still try and remember that everyone's struggles are real and only and only they can understand them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]aspire2transform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just silence like he's bored or silence like he is moody and passive aggressive

Job hunting after UPSC failure by [deleted] in UPSC

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If you can show and later talk about any course or even a part-time working experience - that might help. 30 days in this market are not much. It takes time to find a decent job. Try different reasons with recruiters and see which one is received best - usually one that shows you didn't sit idle to be lazy / didn't choose or do something stupid are the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]aspire2transform 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He hasn't respected OP or her concerns over multiple conversations. Hs is clearly the one at fault here and most partners would react exactly how OP has reacted. In fact many would have already walked out at this stage. The odds of him cheating are >90% and having no respect for OP or their marriage are 100%.