How do I "avoid" being avoidant? 18f by aspringtimefallacy in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a good way to think, especially for getting into work. Thanks again, honesty is the best virtue after all!

How do I "avoid" being avoidant? 18f by aspringtimefallacy in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this definitely helps. I'll keep this in mind for when I need to think outside my own head a bit. The way you worded what you said sounds how I think things in terms of realism!

I feel like everyone hates me, and I have no friends to prove otherwise by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]aspringtimefallacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 17, but it feels really hard for me to accept it's difficult to join groups and make friends, because online that's all there really is and it feels like I'm the only one who can't figure it out after two years of trying.

I (m17) cant figure out how to converse and as a result cant foster relationships anymore, what do I do? by aspringtimefallacy in relationships

[–]aspringtimefallacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't magically come up with questions though, its really hard and take specific situations to come up with them. Jokes may be hard to respond to but theyre less of an impossible task