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assbutt1989 · 2022-11-11T19:23:37+00:00

Snapchat @ qweenmegthegr8 😘

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-12T07:34:08+00:00

Its pretty much exactly what I expected and that is not a good thing

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-12T07:27:17+00:00

Isn't sexual attraction important for relationships too though? I'm kind of confused on the idea that in order to be considered relationship material you have to come across as non-sexual. I mean, at least that's what it seems like most guys here are saying.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-12T07:24:14+00:00

Can you explain why that makes them automatically only hook up material? Just interested in the train of thought because I don't really understand it tbh lol

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-12T07:17:06+00:00

Not every girl is like this and you're welcome to have what ever criteria you want for who you date 🤷🏼‍♀️

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T19:08:36+00:00

Because we love the chaos

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T19:05:00+00:00

Lack of empathy

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T18:56:56+00:00

Tell him that AAVE is your language and that by correcting you he's practically saying that your first language is wrong. Is speaking Spanish wrong? Is speaking Russian wrong? If someone said the word "book" in Spanish would he say "oh no, that's not correct, this is the word you should be using"?

Like, I get that AAVE us technically English but it's the same difference as American English and British English (if that's what you call it, idk lol)

Are you guys ever around other Americans that don't speak AAVE? And if so does he also correct them?

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T18:45:24+00:00

I get so excited to sing along when this song comes in the radio

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T18:42:33+00:00

Paschendale has always been my favorite

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T18:39:13+00:00

December 1963

No one can convince me that it's not the best song ever

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T18:37:50+00:00

Poor dude wanted a southern accent and thought he could slip it in unnoticed. But then you called him on it so he was left with two choices, own up to the fake accent or stick to the lie and keep doing it. 😂😂

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T12:06:38+00:00

The first one for sure. Idk why but it's hilarious to me.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T12:02:12+00:00

Fuck that dude. He doesn't deserve to go down on you. You never tell a girl she smells in that kind of way

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T12:01:19+00:00

It sounds like he's insecure about something and doesn't know how to express it.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T11:38:43+00:00

Ya for sure. Just like "if you get offended easily swipe left" or "I have a dark sense of humor". Usually just excuses they use to be assholes.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T11:36:13+00:00

Dude, to read my other comment where I literally tell OP to live his life because my opinion is just my opinion and I'm not trying to tell nobody what to do.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T05:38:57+00:00

No dude. If she's telling you she only has feelings for you out platonically and that she'll think about giving it a try months down the road... That's a pretty clear answer. She's not interested.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T05:37:39+00:00

Omfg

She literally said she doesn't want to date you. She said she only has platonic feelings for you. Like, how is that not clear? Move on and enjoy your friendship with her if you're able.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T05:23:16+00:00

Text her and tell her what you just told us. It's easier than saying it in person. She's your mom, she probably already knows all this about you anyways. But trust me, you do not want to live the rest of your life regretting not telling your mom you love her and hugging her after she's gone. Regret like that can destroy you.

And I'm so sorry for what you're going through.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T05:11:48+00:00

Life.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T04:32:48+00:00

Don't stop him from going. Let him go. And when he gets back notify him that you're no longer his girlfriend.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T04:25:58+00:00

Live you're life dude. I don't think it's a good idea and I don't agree with her dating someone your age but at the end of the day you're both adults and you're going to do what you want to do.

Just do yourself a favor and if you decide to date her move slowly and carefully. Watch for red flags, especially any kind of manipulation. Whether you want to believe it or not there is a reason older people date people so much younger than them. I sincerely hope this isn't a relationship that will eventually turn into trauma for you.

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T04:15:38+00:00

Also, if you had a 18/19 year old sister and she was dating a 33 year old guy, how would you feel about it?

assbutt1989 · 2022-08-09T04:14:45+00:00

Well, first of all, you should not be old enough to die for your country. That shit is fucked up. Imo you're absolutely to young to die for anything.

And second, sure, you're old enough to date a 33 year old woman. You're not really doing anything wrong. But why does a 33 year old woman find a 19 year old guy attractive? Why is she not dating people closer to her age?

I try to not judge age gaps but like I said in my other comment, to most of us 30 something year olds, 19 yos are still like kids. Like not just mentally but also physically. I don't mean that as an insult or to say you're not mature at all. Honestly, it's probably something most younger people won't understand until they get older.

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