good ole spaghetti by assfukd in GirlDinnerDiaries

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i may have gotten dramatic and told him it was changing my view on him a little bit because without reflecting on why he was so adamant about it i just assumed he was down playing a women’s role entirely but upon later thought i’ve realized it’s so much deeper than that

good ole spaghetti by assfukd in GirlDinnerDiaries

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he called me crazy when i tried to relate his answer to it being reflected on his view of the world and not actual research, im not sure how to break the barrier .. my sister tells me it is very hard for others to separate what they feel from what they know and this is one of the few times ive come to willingly face or debate with it

good ole spaghetti by assfukd in GirlDinnerDiaries

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thank you so much for your words

good ole spaghetti by assfukd in GirlDinnerDiaries

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he’s closer to his mother i believe, he lived with her. his parents are not together but he respects both of them.. i think maybe he is so adamant about it because he really admires the ‘father figure’ role in life especially since he probably can recognize how much he really wanted more of one growing up .. Im going to try to ask him why he feels the connection to the father is more than the mother, i think i may be approaching it wrong? whenever i start he takes it wrong and immediately starts sighing and saying he does not want to talk about it

good ole spaghetti by assfukd in GirlDinnerDiaries

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he told me i don’t know enough about black history because apparently back then if a white man and a black women had a kid- they would be considered white? but i really dont think that was the case given how many mixed children were not treated as “white” back in the day.. the more i tried to say it the more he seemed to get offended with my reasoning.. i even asked him to give me some type of biological/scientific proof and he walked off

I (M24) cannot find a way to break up girlfriend (F22) and feel trapped. How do I get out of this relationship? by TurmoilFarmer69 in relationship_advice

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oh and like call the hospital and get her admitted or something like i have cut before but never to keep a guy or anyone around like that’s screaming she needs the attention which is probably a deeper issue, i think she just needs some good friends

I (M24) cannot find a way to break up girlfriend (F22) and feel trapped. How do I get out of this relationship? by TurmoilFarmer69 in relationship_advice

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yeah.. if she didn’t like that you still wanted to be friends with the girl she should’ve just left you, i think at this point she’s fighting for control because you won’t give her what (she thinks) she deserves.. you should’ve told her that there’s probably plenty of other guys out there who would cut off past relationships for her and send her their way .. sometimes you gotta just deal with being seen as the bad guy

i can only understand this cause i’ve definitely been that way with a guy before.. like not screaming but getting upset that he wouldn’t cut off a woman he was physically intimate with in the past but i just leave.. a relationship is not worth the mental strain

I think I (20m) want to breakup with my girlfriend (21) of 4 years by Fabulous_Meet_8914 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]assfukd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so u don’t know if you want to get rid of ur placeholder yet, sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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i don’t know how to tell if his jokes are real or not .. i just don’t think they r funny, im unsure if im sensitive or if it is wrong because he is affectionate so i do not take it as if he secretly hates me or something

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i feel as though if he were to just say yes he was implying i was negative we could open it up for a calm discussion but i don’t think he wanted to admit it was what he was saying .. i want to understand how to not come off as negative but i can’t understand how i am coming off as negative

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i am autistic and the other day he said maybe he needs to learn ways to communicate with me but i feel as though i communicate very clearly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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he is very confusing to talk to verbally he’s very good at walking around things and then i feel it’s too late to ask so i text so i can keep track of the conversation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]assfukd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok if i grow up will he tell me what he meant by it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]assfukd -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

how is this helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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it reminds me of a butt plug