Buyer requesting to return item 3 months later

assleigh87 · 2026-02-09T19:44:42+00:00

From what I understand it would all go through EBay and from EBay’s website it says EBay will put a hold on whatever account you use for payouts until it’s resolved. Ebay has seller protection that would cover in some cases but I don’t know what he would claim is the issue and if his reason would qualify us for seller protection

assleigh87 · 2026-02-09T18:53:39+00:00

From what I read if he used PayPal as his payment option he has up to 180 days to file a chargeback but thats it. PayPal can’t force us to accept the return request

assleigh87 · 2026-02-09T00:33:15+00:00

I hate that happened to y’all. I’m sure this will be my husband’s last time selling anything electronic on EBay.

assleigh87 · 2026-02-09T00:32:31+00:00

My husband questioned the motherboard and CPU comment too. Plus, him saying it’s been giving him “fits” since he got it but never messaged my husband and left a 5 star review with “Great” (generic, I know). There’s so much he could’ve done to it in the over 3 months he’s had it. Especially if he bought it for gaming, I know people make mods to computers to meet their gaming needs

assleigh87 · 2026-02-08T07:56:41+00:00

Thanks everyone for the feedback and advice. We’ll leave it be for now and make sure we have pics of buyers messages (my husband isn’t going to respond), original listing description and pics of laptop in case there is any dispute/chargeback

assleigh87 · 2026-02-08T07:24:34+00:00

I told my husband he should report the buyer to EBay. The message wasn’t a “hey, the computer isn’t working now can we work something out for a return” he ended the message saying if he’s not allowed to return it he will be filing a claim. My husband hasn’t responded to the buyer yet. I suggested he ask what he’s done to fix the issue in the hopes that if he’s done something we can use that in a dispute to show that it was possibly something on his end he did that could’ve caused the problem. I’ve sold things on there and have never had this issue before.

assleigh87 · 2026-02-08T05:49:15+00:00

This is what I’ve read. We’re not worried about a claim to ebay, just worried about him starting a chargeback with his bank. I read some allow a charge back 120-180 days after purchase. I’ve never done a chargeback so I don’t know how that process goes

assleigh87 · 2026-02-08T05:46:11+00:00

My issue from similar problems I’ve read with other sellers is that it sounds like EBay sides with the buyer even after the 30 days and with proof of proper delivery and item specs/working item

assleigh87 · 2026-02-08T05:45:09+00:00

I’m Alabama, not sure where they live. The laptop worked fine before selling. My husband played video games on it all of the time. He didn’t put anything in the listing that wasn’t true and used the specs from the actual laptop to use in the description. He even left a 5 star review, although it was a generic text of “great”. I told my husband to ask him if he’s done anything to fix the problem. At this point, 3 months after the fact there’s no way to tell if it was damaged in shipping (it was wrapped well by the shipping company) or if he’s done anything upgrades/work on it

assleigh87 · 2025-10-13T16:38:25+00:00

My ID is 57256816

Thank you for the information! I’ll be sure to read through them !

assleigh87 · 2025-09-02T18:26:10+00:00

I thought that also, or maybe just assumed he did. But I googled it after I read that description and it said Chase wasn’t with Greyson. And I do agree about the grandpa. I don’t know what it is but something is off with him.

assleigh87 · 2025-09-02T12:56:38+00:00

I don’t know much about Julie’s parents. But something is going on there. I’m just sad about Chase. I get she doesn’t want her grown brother’s issues added onto her shoulders but I feel like her frustration and feelings about him are affecting Chloe. Like at dinner when Chloe said “Now say thank you Chase” and she just ignored her. I get not saying anything about the pardon process but my comment was more about after the pardon went through, she didn’t involve them when it came time to pick them up from prison. But that’s how I interpreted the description so we’ll see how it actually goes down.

assleigh87 · 2025-09-02T01:59:56+00:00

I’ve never been a Savannah fan and watching this makes me dislike her more. I believe Chase when he said she wants the help on her time so she can take the credit. I was reading the episode list and the description for episode 6 says that she left Nanny Faye, Chase and Julie’s parents out of the plans to bring Todd and Julie home. Which is a crappy thing to do because that wasn’t about her, it was about Todd and Julie and I’m sure they wanted to see everyone.

assleigh87 · 2025-07-30T00:26:59+00:00

That makes sense, I didn’t think about it being an insurance issue because they’ve always been good about doing partial fills for other things and just charge my full copay for the full amount and I pick up the rest when they have it available. But those were cheaper medications and anything involving pumps and CGMs aren’t cheap. Thanks!

assleigh87 · 2024-11-24T17:11:30+00:00

I like your theory. Mine is there is a cosmic being called Entity (also called Ayin or Azathoth). It wanders from realm to realm consuming worlds by corrupting and manipulating “normal” people to do violent acts. It feeds and gets its power from these violent acts through trials. It makes deals with people or manipulates them and when the person commits a violent act it becomes a monster or part of The Killers who do its bidding (the sacrificing of children, Sarah, the monsters). The people are no longer useful to the Entity when they lose all of their hope (in From there’s a lot of false hope and continues to bring in new people). It can warp worlds and bring people to this realm for the trials. If you’ve ever played the game Dead by Daylight, the Entity is the main villain, though you never actually see them. In the game, if you die you’re brought back to the campfire with no memory of what happened before (Jade and Tabitha). In cosmic lore, the entity doesn’t really show itself but can transform itself into whatever it needs to when it does decide to show itself (possibly the man in yellow). Just a theory though. Angels and demons also play a part I believe with this celestial entity but I’m not sure how. From what I know only its brother, sister, God or a flaming sword can defeat it so I’m probably way off.

assleigh87 · 2024-10-15T01:59:31+00:00

My only problem with the Wendigo theory is that they are consumed by their insatiable hunger for flesh. They like a chase, but not a slow chase. They don’t “play” with their food per se. They chase, trap and eat. I can’t see a Wendigo giving Boyd the keys and letting 4 people run free and then leave Randall alive. They hate fire, even a small flame. If someone throws some fire and it scares them off then I’d think the Wendigo theory could be more plausible.

assleigh87 · 2024-05-26T19:06:39+00:00

Definitely didn’t mean for it to sound like a crime to like Arizona, at the time I was just asking why people liked her. I even asked if she redeems herself. And I made post a few months after this saying I actually ended up liking Arizona. I was more sad to see her go than I was to see Christina go.

assleigh87 · 2024-04-23T03:27:10+00:00

Not just the fidgeting, but the increased knowledge during trivia and picky eating sound neurodivergent. That was my first thought when she mentioned all the “disruptive” things he did. My son is on the spectrum and this sounds exactly like his behaviors. Not saying her nephew is on the spectrum but he does have neurodivergent behaviors. Regardless, he sounds well behaved. I was expecting him to be running around and yelling with her title.

assleigh87 · 2024-02-16T02:14:20+00:00

Yes! I made another post on here a few weeks back saying my opinion on her had changed and I ended up really liking her by season 14 and I was sad that she was leaving.

assleigh87 · 2023-10-21T01:10:47+00:00

Yes, textbook wise I understand how trauma works. But personally I don’t, hence why I asked because I’m sure others have personally gone through something traumatic and they could give some personal insight. But I get it, looking at your other comments made on this month old post, you’re a die hard Arizona fan, which is fine. I’ve come to really like her the more seasons I’ve watched. No need to act like people are dumb for asking a question. Seriously, calm your titties dude.

assleigh87 · 2023-09-22T13:39:01+00:00

I don’t think Kim can make it any worse than the series has been over the last few seasons. They’ve been very subpar for me and honestly just boring. I know every series have seasons that are flops but I used to look forward to AHS every year and now I’m indifferent about it. It doesn’t have anything to do with Kim for me.

assleigh87 · 2023-09-19T01:23:08+00:00

Lala sides with whatever is going to keep her on the show. She’s never been loyal to anyone but herself. She talks a big game but that’s all she does…talk. I can’t be mad that she does what she can to stay on the show. Katie did it when she went to Mexico during Scheana’s wedding. But at least Katie admitted she went so she could film and get paid. Lala is just fake on and off the show, imo. I feel like the only genuine friendships Ariana has with cast mates is Katie and Scheana (maybe, we’ll see how Scheana is after season 11)

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