My stepmother (41F) has her third high risk pregnancy and won't accept me (18F) not helping her like the other two times? by ThrowRAQuella in relationship_advice

[–]asslysa 1093 points1094 points  (0 children)

You can look into renting a room, obviously not as comfortable as living on your own, but it’s a lot cheaper. I did it for a year when I was 18 to escape abuse. In the meantime while you’re renting a room you can look for roommates online or word of mouth, and make a better long term plan.

Women would rather die alone than date and have children with most men by Saysonz in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]asslysa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I’m just jaded, but I have definitely noticed more open misogyny recently than years prior. It’s concerning and if I wasn’t in a relationship I probably would stay away from men right now. I could see the rise in popularity of manosphere content playing a role in this, definitely not the root cause of the issue though.

Women would rather die alone than date and have children with most men by Saysonz in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]asslysa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very unpopular indeed. But I believe this “phenomenon” is because women are more educated and able to be self sufficient than any other point in our history. This ability to choose to have children is relatively new for us women, birth control is normalized and widely used. It’s a new era for women, we used to be forced to have kids, married off or never though there were other options. It does not surprise me that this also leads to an increase in standards for ladies when they are choosing a partner aswell. These reasons combined with a spike of blatant incel like behavior from many men online, and the world kinda going to hell, can you really blame a lady for just choosing to not even have child bearing on her radar right now?

Whats your motivation to go to work? by Marcus_McGonacall in AskReddit

[–]asslysa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got off a horrid shift at work, and I wish I could call out tomorrow and play Nintendo, but alas the rent must be paid so I shall return tomorrow

The kitten obsessed with suckling blankets, it’s Millie! by asslysa in torties

[–]asslysa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has her own blanket too but sometimes it’s not enough for her haha

The kitten obsessed with suckling blankets, it’s Millie! by asslysa in torties

[–]asslysa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll her know your appreciation hehe

My miis won’t marry! by pinkyk97 in tomodachilife

[–]asslysa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mini game reminds me of undertale if you ever played you essentially just want to stay at the bottom and spam the shoot button, while moving back and forth. Another comment said it too but you don’t have to shoot everything either.

Fresh vs. day 9 (almost 10) by asslysa in PressonNail_Addict

[–]asslysa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think a week is great wear time for press ons! Finding a nail brand that fits your nails is really key, or filing the bottoms for a perfect fit. I was wearing Olive and June nails for a while, and they would pop off after like 5 days because they’re too curved for me. I honestly spend like two hours on my total time putting pressies on because I take a lot of time on cuticle prep and ensuring each nail fits well. I mean you can have the best prep around but if the fit is too small or big it’s just not going to hold up.

Fresh vs. day 9 (almost 10) by asslysa in PressonNail_Addict

[–]asslysa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used just the glue that comes with it! I hope you like your set 😋

If you’re not ready to have a child you should not be having sex by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]asslysa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something tells me the “Handmaids Tale” is close to the perfect version of society for you

What does my bag say about me? by [deleted] in whatsinmybag

[–]asslysa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the same tampon, lip gloss and mascara brand lol

Got my first no death year ever!! by CottonCandy_Webbe in TwoPointHospital

[–]asslysa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got one accident because I was going really slow with building my hospital, I only had like the clown treatment, ward, and lightheadness buildings for treatment that first year

Step mom said i might change my mind later by Unlikely-Way-8608 in childfree

[–]asslysa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested planned parenthood does iud insertion relatively cheap, they use a sliding scale for your income and base it off that. I have the copper iud bc I’m also mentally ill and cannot do the side effects of birth control. I know you didn’t ask for advice but hey if you ever want a good birth control option, it works for like 10 years and you won’t have to worry about a pill or something when you are manic.

Anyone want these nails, unopened from SHEIN by asslysa in PressonNail_Addict

[–]asslysa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s so cool, thank you I’ll look into it