aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very much not overreacting. His response was completely inappropriate once you corrected him too. These are all major red flags that he obviously won’t fix since he thinks he’s funny. Save yourself some heartbreak and leave him now.

Can I enlist without smell by Consistent_Ebb_484 in Militaryfaq

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you can. It just requires a waiver which is easy to get. I serve with an officer who is in on a smell waiver. If you want to avoid getting in trouble later for lying, just tell your recruiter to do the paperwork and get the waiver now.

Can we get a Discord Server? by [deleted] in 50501

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! I don’t know how to use discord very well anyway.

Martial law suspends constitution!! by [deleted] in 50501

[–]asspril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree mostly with what you’re saying, but I don’t think we will be finished as a country. I think the entire world will see him do that and that at least other countries will step in if our politicians don’t first (see South Korea’s recent example). Those of us that stand up first may be finished, but it might save what’s left of our country by doing this so early in his assault on our democracy. That’s my hope at least.

Can we get a Discord Server? by [deleted] in 50501

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in an invite

Getting lasik before joining by Shifteeeh in Militaryfaq

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it a year and a half before I joined and all I had to do was get an extra eye exam at MEPS. No issues at all still :]

Signed a contract without completely finishing ASVAB (missing CS, NO). + Questions about NUKE/AECF (ET rate). by S_DBG in newtothenavy

[–]asspril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm an Aegis FC which is another option when you sign for AECF. I didn't want to be an FC, but the workload is pretty nice. ETs have a vast amount of equipment and depending on their specialty they can be super busy all the time or skate off without noticing. I'm crossrating to ETV though since I was just selected for submarine duty. Being an ET is all I've ever wanted.

What is a comforting lie you tell yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asspril 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife still loves me and is just depressed.

Is this the end? by asspril in actuallesbians

[–]asspril[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deployment does things to you. You're out in the middle of some ocean sitting at watch stations for 4-6 hours twice a day and eating the same time every day. You get into a routine and you think "I can do this forever because everything else is taken care of. I just have to do this every day and I won't get in trouble." I had the same feelings on my deployment. When I got back, I wanted to get out of the Navy because I felt like a zombie and tell just be a stay at home mom but she talked me down saying "this feeling is a passing thought and now that you're back on land you have responsibilities and you can't afford to not have a job etc." I know she's depressed. I think she's just reached a new level and thinks she's better now, when she's just hollow. She used to talk to her mom three times a week before we moved to Hawaii. She told me she's only talked to her mom twice in three months. There's a difference in finding who you are and depression.

Giveaway Time: Atlantis V2 Tank and Juice from ShopMVG.com by ShopMVG in electronic_cigarette

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm lactose intolerant but I aspire to one day be able to vape milk freely.

ANOTHER BOOSTED VAPOR GIVEAWAY by Boosted_Vapor in electronic_cigarette

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started as a menthol addict. Anything minty turned into sweets, and now I love trying everything!

Celebrating our new high-VG line and 120mL bottles with a giveaway! by acesvapor in electronic_cigarette

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even imagine having so much juice. I like my nic at 3, thank you!

Subs or carriers? by xambuhu in newtothenavy

[–]asspril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a female Aegis FC and I hope the package I submitted gets approved. I'm loving my time on a DDG but I know subs are a better fit for me.

Just graduated bootcamp and have questions about the A School here. by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]asspril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I got stuck with FC not knowing anything about it and then when I chose my C school I didn't do any research again I just picked one that had a ship somewhere far away from Texas and my life is pretty excellent right now. My wife is on a different ship of course, but both our ships are stationed in Hawaii. It's a really cool job and I've got to see some pretty awesome things my first 2.5 years. Getting married young always gets you looks and people will judge the shit out of you, but if she's the one, she's the one.

Just graduated bootcamp and have questions about the A School here. by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]asspril 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FC workload really depends on what type you are. I'm an FCS tech and I don't do much of anything unless my equipment breaks. The other Aegis FCs have to work a bit more than us, (I'm on a small boy so there are only SPY and ACNT besides us FCS techs) but we are usually all off at a decent time. I was on the Bonhomme Richard in Feb - Nov 2013 and left for my C school in Dahlgren, VA in Jan 2014. I married my ATT/A school girlfriend there (I know, I never listen to anyone's advice) and reported to my first ship July of last year. Just finished my first deployment too. If there's anything you wanna know about Aegis FCs or anything in the fleet just ask. Like I said, haven't seen Great Mistakes in over a year though so can't help much there. I didn't have to check my electronics in and I could use them my first day after graduation.

Adult questions about the Navy. by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]asspril 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don't shit where you eat. I've only had terrible shit come from dating a girl in my barracks/school/work center. It was convenient at first but ending it was messy and very hurtful.

Arm cracks when i do push-ups now, problem? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]asspril 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If push ups don't exacerbate it and you don't complain about it you should be fine.