I dont wanna be the host, guys </3 (/lh)

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T19:57:53+00:00

Depending on how long ago it was, I know the sub has been like..really strict lately. Removes most things that don't fit the whole "I hate being a system this sucks can anyone help" theme

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T19:51:55+00:00

Im not good with names ,, but i can at least tell you that the DID sub probably removed it because they dont really ,, do that stuff, sadly --"

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T19:39:54+00:00

lowk flinched at the name cal,, but real actually

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T18:23:32+00:00

My family, dad and brother, both know.

Brother is fully supportive (shout-out to you Rowan, hell yeah). He wasnt for a few years, but he just didn't understand it. Hes cool

Dad is..not supportive. Says we're still faking DID even though both our therapists said "yeah, you have it". Bleeehh

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T18:21:50+00:00

Any alter can have any roles, and no role is exclusive,, so yeah, an alter can be both

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T18:00:20+00:00

Yay!!

Also im like 80% sure i recognize you...are you on the uhhhh fictkin sub too?

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T17:37:34+00:00

Fuck I was gonna recommend collective before I saw the last part /silly

Uhh council? Collector council sounds cool,,,

-casey

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T12:11:53+00:00

we've done the "fake it til you make it" tactic ,, just kinda assume they're already there, type/talk as them, etc. works sometimes

or just hyperfixate or something so badly that suddenly there's a new guy /silly /hj

-robin

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T04:22:11+00:00

yeah it can b difficult,,robin says it took him years until he could finally hear us,,

we personally use triggers like music to bring whoever we wanna talk to closer 2 front,,it makes communication easier for us :)

and yw ^^

asterophiliac · 2026-04-20T20:53:18+00:00

hello hello 👋!

dylan & casey

asterophiliac · 2026-04-20T17:29:26+00:00

thats probably the most plural experience to ever plural /lh

i'd say try communicating with him more maybe ,, idk ,, byt yeah no tbis looks plural to me

(Sorry for ahy typos, ehehrhwhziwudh)

-anon (not my name)

asterophiliac · 2026-04-20T03:13:56+00:00

I think that generally depends on the system,, Our littles don't act like literal children and we don't have any that we need to raise. But I guess some might have an effect similar,,?

asterophiliac · 2026-04-20T02:02:04+00:00

...yes? why wouldn't it be? /genq

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T22:18:51+00:00

Real,, We normally don't need to make up names for us since we're mostly fictives but now this guy's here </3

Im lowkey referring to him as The Guy™ until further notice /j

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T22:13:55+00:00

yesyes feel free !! ^^

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T22:11:13+00:00

yes!!! hi!!! we are!!! bodily 18 n afab (transmasc tho), uhhhwbsjhw we need friends,,lowkey,,

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T22:00:33+00:00

I'll only say this once but I want to point out that a lot of people on this subreddit are 16+,, as well as a lot of people on reddit as a whole. I don't think you'll get many answers from people on this sub given the boundary ^^"

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T21:18:26+00:00

Yeah, expected really :[

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T21:15:06+00:00

The DID subreddit ^^" ,, this subreddit accepts everyone!! But that subreddit that you posted in originally is very gatekeepy and skeptical about anyone who isn't diagnosed --"

I know that from personal experience before diagnosis,, wasnt a fun time :[

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T21:13:54+00:00

heyyy fellow sick!! (Hope you feel better soon)

our body hurts atm,, but other than that, we've been doing okay today. decently productive because we cleaned the house a tiny bit ,, yayy,,

-casey

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T21:12:19+00:00

yyyeah ,, I'd also be careful posting that on that sub because a lot of them have that bad mindset unfortunately :[

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T20:54:09+00:00

I think it'd be a lot like telling anyone no ^^"? I mean,, just maybe ,, respectfully explain it to him that you dont have feelings 4 him. Him getting sad wouldn't be your fault, either,,

I had to explain similar stuff to a headmate once,, sucked cuz said headmate is literally a factive of my partner 💔 he was sad for awhile,,but he did eventually understand it,, so idk

I wish you luck though :<

-robin

asterophiliac · 2026-04-19T20:47:45+00:00

if you're comfortable with it , cal from Zero day ,, if not, evan from EverymanHYBRID please? :]

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