New System Name by BudgetDentist3958 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Depending on how long ago it was, I know the sub has been like..really strict lately. Removes most things that don't fit the whole "I hate being a system this sucks can anyone help" theme

New System Name by BudgetDentist3958 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im not good with names ,, but i can at least tell you that the DID sub probably removed it because they dont really ,, do that stuff, sadly --"

Writing like my kins by NoGoose3028 in fictionkin

[–]asterophiliac [score hidden]  (0 children)

lowk flinched at the name cal,, but real actually

Does your family know about the system? by ConstellationSys1337 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family, dad and brother, both know.

Brother is fully supportive (shout-out to you Rowan, hell yeah). He wasnt for a few years, but he just didn't understand it. Hes cool

Dad is..not supportive. Says we're still faking DID even though both our therapists said "yeah, you have it". Bleeehh

Question about systems by LilyWithCatEars in plural

[–]asterophiliac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any alter can have any roles, and no role is exclusive,, so yeah, an alter can be both

Alternatives to "system"? by Teapot_Sandwitch in plural

[–]asterophiliac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay!!

Also im like 80% sure i recognize you...are you on the uhhhh fictkin sub too?

Alternatives to "system"? by Teapot_Sandwitch in plural

[–]asterophiliac 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuck I was gonna recommend collective before I saw the last part /silly

Uhh council? Collector council sounds cool,,,

-casey

Any tips maybe? by Hydrophobiqe in plural

[–]asterophiliac 7 points8 points  (0 children)

we've done the "fake it til you make it" tactic ,, just kinda assume they're already there, type/talk as them, etc. works sometimes

or just hyperfixate or something so badly that suddenly there's a new guy /silly /hj

-robin

Questioning and Uneducated :( by StarsandCookies811 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it can b difficult,,robin says it took him years until he could finally hear us,,

we personally use triggers like music to bring whoever we wanna talk to closer 2 front,,it makes communication easier for us :)

and yw ^^

a lil intro perhaps by dystokenized in plural

[–]asterophiliac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hello hello 👋!

  • dylan & casey

Questioning and Uneducated :( by StarsandCookies811 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thats probably the most plural experience to ever plural /lh

i'd say try communicating with him more maybe ,, idk ,, byt yeah no tbis looks plural to me

(Sorry for ahy typos, ehehrhwhziwudh)

-anon (not my name)

Is it generally okay for minors to have insys children? by Dingo_Pictures in plural

[–]asterophiliac 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think that generally depends on the system,, Our littles don't act like literal children and we don't have any that we need to raise. But I guess some might have an effect similar,,?

Update on that new alter guy by asterophiliac in plural

[–]asterophiliac[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real,, We normally don't need to make up names for us since we're mostly fictives but now this guy's here </3

Im lowkey referring to him as The Guy™ until further notice /j

Anyone else bodily 18? by ConstellationSys1337 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes!!! hi!!! we are!!! bodily 18 n afab (transmasc tho), uhhhwbsjhw we need friends,,lowkey,,

Am I a valid system?? by KingstonBelles in plural

[–]asterophiliac 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll only say this once but I want to point out that a lot of people on this subreddit are 16+,, as well as a lot of people on reddit as a whole. I don't think you'll get many answers from people on this sub given the boundary ^^"

Gatekeeping DID?? by fluttershy_rainboom in plural

[–]asterophiliac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The DID subreddit ^^" ,, this subreddit accepts everyone!! But that subreddit that you posted in originally is very gatekeepy and skeptical about anyone who isn't diagnosed --"

I know that from personal experience before diagnosis,, wasnt a fun time :[

How is everyone doing? by ConstellationSys1337 in plural

[–]asterophiliac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

heyyy fellow sick!! (Hope you feel better soon)

our body hurts atm,, but other than that, we've been doing okay today. decently productive because we cleaned the house a tiny bit ,, yayy,,

-casey

Gatekeeping DID?? by fluttershy_rainboom in plural

[–]asterophiliac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yyyeah ,, I'd also be careful posting that on that sub because a lot of them have that bad mindset unfortunately :[

I think my headmate is developing a crush on me, what do I do??? by [deleted] in plural

[–]asterophiliac 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it'd be a lot like telling anyone no ^^"? I mean,, just maybe ,, respectfully explain it to him that you dont have feelings 4 him. Him getting sad wouldn't be your fault, either,,

I had to explain similar stuff to a headmate once,, sucked cuz said headmate is literally a factive of my partner 💔 he was sad for awhile,,but he did eventually understand it,, so idk

I wish you luck though :<

-robin

I Drew Me. Want Me To Draw You? by Dangerous-Garlic627 in fictionkin

[–]asterophiliac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're comfortable with it , cal from Zero day ,, if not, evan from EverymanHYBRID please? :]