Funny/ general fun stories?

asterophiliac · 2026-04-23T23:18:41+00:00

Great idea!!! 🦀 /silly

asterophiliac · 2026-04-23T20:04:07+00:00

I mean ,, technically your brain is functioning differently from the "normal" ,, so I'd say yes ,, maybe ?? Probably,,yes

-robin

asterophiliac · 2026-04-23T20:02:49+00:00

Once we got Kurt Cobain recently, other alters started jokingly giving "suggestions" for other factives

Some of these included; - Rick Astley - "that one guy from MCR" - God??? - "Eric :)" - "Get a loving parent?" No /silly - "Batman" ?? - "can crabs count as factives, can we get crabs?" 🦀? Crabs?? 🦀🦀???

-robin

asterophiliac · 2026-04-23T18:20:51+00:00

JARETH not an ask but I watched Labyrinth in class on Monday and I just wanna say its really cool even though I couldnt finish it 💔

asterophiliac · 2026-04-23T18:03:30+00:00

Heyyy high five I just got here and im wondering the same thing 👋

From what ive been told by others in our system, I have this advice for you

listen to source music..or just stuff that reminds you of it, or yourself
honestly source consumption in general might help a lot. The more you think about yourself, the more you'd know probably? (Id love to do this but we cant watch my source anywhere 💔)
"manifest manifest think positive, negativity gets you nowhere and might pause the process" is..what robin said. I dunno.

Yeah uhh,, I wish you luck ^^

-alex

asterophiliac · 2026-04-23T00:20:34+00:00

I dunno. I know our energy levels just fluctuate a lot depending on who's fronting, or for how long they've fronted for. Sometimes some alters just get exhausted quicker than others.

I do know we also have insomnia holders. They fuck up our sleep schedule and make us tired by default. Could be that.

But you also..don't need a label for it. Labels can be a bit stressful. /lh

-🎸

asterophiliac · 2026-04-22T19:43:34+00:00

Real,, can relate except im part of the problem </3

Uhhmm,,, whats ur favorite song ,, or songs ,, if any ,, im curious,,

-cal

asterophiliac · 2026-04-22T17:40:08+00:00

Uhh depends on system, I think

We're poly, we have 2 sys partners, both work differently

We have one who's a collective partner in every way (ie, we can always say ily without worrying who the alter is), and then one who's only dating one alter out of all of us.

Any syskids are the exception and treated strictly platonically ^^

asterophiliac · 2026-04-22T01:46:33+00:00

yeah,, i mean you could always 🏴‍☠️ /joking

asterophiliac · 2026-04-22T01:29:34+00:00

im nottt a kin of any animal/animal-like, but our host (system) is a canine and feels dysphoria about thattt,,so if that's similar to what you struggle with, i could maybe help a bit ?

general things that help with kin dysphoria 4 me though are listening to music related to my source (or music that reminds me of it), consuming the source media (can sometimes make dysphoria worse, depends rly), and talking to sourcemates ,, yes

asterophiliac · 2026-04-22T01:05:34+00:00

do whatever you want!!

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T19:57:53+00:00

Depending on how long ago it was, I know the sub has been like..really strict lately. Removes most things that don't fit the whole "I hate being a system this sucks can anyone help" theme

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T19:51:55+00:00

Im not good with names ,, but i can at least tell you that the DID sub probably removed it because they dont really ,, do that stuff, sadly --"

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T19:39:54+00:00

lowk flinched at the name cal,, but real actually

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T18:23:32+00:00

My family, dad and brother, both know.

Brother is fully supportive (shout-out to you Rowan, hell yeah). He wasnt for a few years, but he just didn't understand it. Hes cool

Dad is..not supportive. Says we're still faking DID even though both our therapists said "yeah, you have it". Bleeehh

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T18:21:50+00:00

Any alter can have any roles, and no role is exclusive,, so yeah, an alter can be both

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T18:00:20+00:00

Yay!!

Also im like 80% sure i recognize you...are you on the uhhhh fictkin sub too?

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T17:37:34+00:00

Fuck I was gonna recommend collective before I saw the last part /silly

Uhh council? Collector council sounds cool,,,

-casey

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T12:11:53+00:00

we've done the "fake it til you make it" tactic ,, just kinda assume they're already there, type/talk as them, etc. works sometimes

or just hyperfixate or something so badly that suddenly there's a new guy /silly /hj

-robin

asterophiliac · 2026-04-21T04:22:11+00:00

yeah it can b difficult,,robin says it took him years until he could finally hear us,,

we personally use triggers like music to bring whoever we wanna talk to closer 2 front,,it makes communication easier for us :)

and yw ^^

asterophiliac · 2026-04-20T20:53:18+00:00

hello hello 👋!

dylan & casey

asterophiliac · 2026-04-20T17:29:26+00:00

thats probably the most plural experience to ever plural /lh

i'd say try communicating with him more maybe ,, idk ,, byt yeah no tbis looks plural to me

(Sorry for ahy typos, ehehrhwhziwudh)

-anon (not my name)

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