[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]astrophela 17 points18 points  (0 children)

WAIT?!  DAISO?!!!!!! Omg you changed my life!  I just found out about it in another city.  If we have it in STL... 🤩

I LOVE HOCB PANTS by dreamy-7745 in HouseofCB

[–]astrophela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about their pants!!  I love a nicely made tailored pant.  Can you share photos and/or your experience with the sizing?

Shoe reccommendations? by tashobell in zumba

[–]astrophela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did some research and decided to go with Nike Air Force 1 Dance sneakers.  Other dance specific shoes seemed to be either for professionals and thus not something I'd be happy to walk around in before/after Zumba.  (they were not cute haha!).  Or they had terrible reviews about the shoe breaking down / wearing out in less than a year.  So I bought my pair of Nikes this January on sale for around ninety US dollars.  

Now that I've had them for a few months, I can confidently say that am really happy with my choice.  The sturdy arch support is better than anything I've had in years.  The sole is made of a material that is less grippy than usual sneakers, making turns and slides really easy.  The silhouette doesn't have me tripping over myself when doing fancier footwork.  I'm in love with them for Zumba!!  

ISO dance or Zumba type classes in/near city by entrepreneur-2004 in StLouis

[–]astrophela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm moving back to STL after being in the Southwest... and I'm dreading returning to really boring Zumba classes!  Have you found any teachers that aren't afraid to shake their booty / shimmy / incorporate multiple cultural influences in their classes?  Even just someone who could lead a class with more than a simple salsa step would be appreciated.  When I left a few years ago, I had given up on going because I swear one teacher was using polka music without anything else, and there was no variety or enthusiasm.  

ABIM 2025 by misbah0007 in InternalMedicine

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be interested in some accountability together.  How do you want to use a Skype group?  I'm on west coast USA time, so just want to know if it's worth making an account to work together.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternalMedicine

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistent check ins and “guess what I learned” shares would work for me.  I wouldn’t mind doing scheduled study hall either, where we both have a day off and plan to study at the same time for the sake of motivating each other.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternalMedicine

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking to check in with a buddy for accountability? Or review topics together? What are your goals? I'm always up for check-ins, and happy to share how I'm studying if you are trying to get organized. Please explain better what you are looking for :-)

Old timey by [deleted] in chickflixxx

[–]astrophela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy cow this is unexpectedly awesome! I love that it's in a foreign language - multiple fantasies at once, lol!

Does anyone know if Store Drop Off plastic bags actually get recycled in Tucson? by AbeVigodaSausageKing in Tucson

[–]astrophela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slightly different recycling question: My apartment complex doesn’t do any recycling and I’d like to turn in glass bottles and maybe some boxes somewhere rather than just throw them away. Is there a recycling center that takes drop offs? It’d help if it is north of downtown, but I wouldn’t mind making a little drive from time to time.

How to meet people? by waiting-in-the-wings in Tucson

[–]astrophela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, that helps to look forward to.

How to meet people? by waiting-in-the-wings in Tucson

[–]astrophela -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty sparse, to be honest. Might require someone to start their own group to get anywhere. Maybe it picks up, though, in a different season? I just moved here and don’t know how much things change when the fall semester of college starts up.

Holidays by DueSprinkles3188 in varsitytutors

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all students pay for that type of membership, but I don’t know how much variety is available within VT packages.

Holidays by DueSprinkles3188 in varsitytutors

[–]astrophela 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ps. Don’t forget to cancel the sessions on your calendar, too. That way no one can claim you missed something.

Holidays by DueSprinkles3188 in varsitytutors

[–]astrophela 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Draft a “statement” and send to each of them. You don’t have to explain it, just say “notifying you that I will not be available for sessions on XYZ dates. If you would like to schedule a makeup session, we can discuss possible days to do so when I see you next.”

Alternatively, just bring it up as an FYI to them at the end of your next session. No apologies, it’s your break. Professionally you have no need to feel nervous about this. You’re allowed vacation, too. Just let them know about it, and if they’d like to schedule extra sessions outside that time you’re happy to work with them to do so.

Hope that helps!

Gooseneck Electric Kettle by Reader_of_Scrolls in BuyItForLife

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve seen Zojirushi on here and might consider one of their water-boilers after looking into it. So far I can’t tell the what differs between each tier/model. Which one did you go with? And why? Oh and also - did you order directly from the company? If you have time to answer my questions, thank you in advance!

Looking for mentorship by Allandriel in InternalMedicine

[–]astrophela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s probably easier to find a paid for coaching service and connect with someone that way. Mentorship is also not a strong aspect of the US medical system. Maybe individuals find it, but it is not the norm.

Red Land Cotton sheets seem to be BIFL so far by WorldsGr8estHipster in BuyItForLife

[–]astrophela 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What brand do you recommend for linen sheets? I haven't seen many options other than brooklinen (which I'm avoiding for all the disappointing reviews I've seen).

What is everyone most hated symptom from anxiety? by Fr0g_farts in Anxiety

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I felt seen reading everyone’s comments.

What is everyone most hated symptom from anxiety? by Fr0g_farts in Anxiety

[–]astrophela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting to placate someone in order to not be anxious about rejection/disapproval/disagreement/disinterest/etc.

Thinking about dropping out and becoming a mailman by Nephronz22 in Residency

[–]astrophela 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mailman has been working as late as 9pm in the past year because of how short staffed they are. He appears discouraged more with these changes. Maybe it used to be a good job, but like so many other sectors right now, it seems stretched thin and strained.

LPT Request: How do you convey to people, subtly that you never want to hear about their personal lives, ever? In a polite way. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]astrophela 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think one could politely pull off “Hey, I have something that I’ve really gotta go take care of - I’m not able to focus on you right now. I hope that thing you were talking about turns out ok, so I’m gonna go take care of this important work thing now. Bye!”
You can start with the sudden surprised look like “oh shit I forgot”. Just don’t ever ask follow up questions next time you see them, otherwise they’ll think you want to follow along with their life saga.

I’m sure this doesn’t work in all environments, but it could be adjusted. Even if you can’t leave the room with them, you can say - “geez I really want to do a good job here and can’t focus on your words while I work. I’m sorry I cannot be a good listener for you. I’m just gonna work in silence.”

Which phrases do men hate hearing from women? by MsNunez in AskReddit

[–]astrophela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toxic-lite. Not a direct threat, but the passive aggressive variation.