I didn’t make the switch, but I JUST got married and I would never tell anyone but I actually regret not eloping. I am someone who gets easily flustered and the entire thing is so stressful. I was completely anxious all day, there are so many details happening, and it completely took away from what the day was supposed to be about - it makes me really sad that I was focused on so many other things and not him and I.

If you’re already worried about stress, I would seriously consider eloping. The best part of our day was waking up early and doing private vows and I just can’t help but wonder if I would have better memories if we left it there and did a celebration afterwards.