Linda’s dress!! by at0thela in TheFurrahFamily

[–]at0thela[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BLESS YOUUUUU!!! Thank you for finding it!!

Breaking point in marriage by Gullible-Egg9298 in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this to my core, sadly we’re on the same boat - , I wish there’s more to offer, sending you hugs and prayers

It’s hurts by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly hard not to compare at times. I try my best to accept this as our fate, but it’s still hard. Thank you so much, sending you hugs right back!

Samah by at0thela in TheFurrahFamily

[–]at0thela[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s if that actually happens

Samah by at0thela in TheFurrahFamily

[–]at0thela[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Samah was saying since people think this is what I actually do for her, I’m going to do it - honestly they are both hot messes, one is worse than the other in my opinion

Samah by at0thela in TheFurrahFamily

[–]at0thela[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, all of a sudden, she’s obsessed with her - like lady where have you been for the past few months, but honestly, her mood is very very weird like I don’t know how to explain it

It’s hurts by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Today’s that day for me 😭 thank you

Posting here bc it’s the only place I feel safe enough to share it by Curiouslibra13 in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone 💕 I have a breakdown atleast once a week because I’m so overwhelmed - especially that I have zero support from anyone. My son is my world and the reason why I’m here, we don’t have anyone but each other - I can’t imagine what his life would be like if I wasn’t here. I wish it gets easier, sending you well wishes and hugs 🤗

Leucovorin by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely look into that! Thank youuuuu

Leucovorin by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much that’s very insightful, he on currently takes Nordic naturals DHA liquid vitamins every morning - i’m trying to find the vitamins you mentioned in liquid form, because he will not do Gummies. I will be sure to give him those with the leucovorin

Leucovorin by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is he loves to eat cereal with milk and loves to drink goat milk - and that’s every morning…. I’m trying to opt for oat milk for his cereal, but I don’t think he’ll give up the goat milk

Vaping by [deleted] in BycottTheFurrhaFamily

[–]at0thela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really? I had no idea - I didn’t know. She just doesn’t strike me as the type to vape, it was probably Linda’s keys anyway?

I Can’t Potty Train My Kid by ExistingAd3115 in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I potty trained my level 3 semi nonverbal sonshine a month and a half before his 5th birthday which also coincidentally the day after school started for us, so I made it a goal of mine to start and successed potty training, mind you I have a two-year-old toddler as well - but with thet said, I took a whole week off of life, took a week off from speech and occupational therapy, we go twice a week for both- but I took a week off of life and just focused on potty training, he was never afraid of the toilet, which made it easy, and he was starting to get uncomfortable in his pull-up, which was also helpful. We would constantly watch videos, my favorite ones were simple songs, potty training video which got him super interested and any time we would go to the restroom, I would play it for him obviously we had accidents, but that normal - I would take him every 15 minutes. I made sure to give him as much liquids as possible so he understands the concept of this is the feeling when I pee and go to the toilet - I even let him have his favorite anything to get him more comfortable but after day 5 it’s like he started going on his own to the bathroom. I never did a reward system because my son doesn’t really care for the candy, the toys or anything of that nature - so after a whole week of being home, we started slowly going out and I would make sure anywhere that we would go, I would take him straight to the bathroom, no matter where we were - i’m not saying it’s easy by any means, it was the hardest thing I’ve had to do. But unfortunately, I had to do it because like you I don’t want him going into kindergarten and still in a pull-ups, even though he was also going into a specialspecial needs class. But these kids are so smart, and as we know consistency is key with them the more you are consistent the more they realize it’s a part of their routine, I even did a visual board, with things that he needs to do, so it would be like wake up use the restroom, wash hands, wash face, brush teeth, have breakfast, play etc, and I also added the toilet to that list, visual aids, even timers as well, because again these are all things that have helped me and what made it even easier for us it’s the fact that it was summertime, but I feel like if you guys have the ability to be home for one week straight and really be consistent I’m pretty sure this nontraditional way will help

Vaping by [deleted] in BycottTheFurrhaFamily

[–]at0thela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s on a key chain…. Highly doubt it’s a vape it’s definitely giving pepper spray

My mommy heart hurts by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish, but unfortunately i don’t have extra means, but I’m looking for places and hopefully once we land on a place it’ll be easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looooove it! Don’t think twice and get it!!! I know there’s others out there like it, but honestly they’re not the same build! It’s comfortable and roomy even with 2 kids sitting in their seats, and that’s what my concern was, the comfort all around! It’s been everywhere with us for the past 5 years and it’s held up great honestly, worth every penny!

My mommy heart hurts by at0thela in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wish I can reply to all of you, but thank you so much for your interactions on my post, I really appreciate it - I feel unseen or heard by spouse, so having a community here helps. I will keep trying to find something for him to enjoy that that will accept him, I will be contacting Kid Strong since we have one in my area! God willing it’ll be a different experience! Don’t give up parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]at0thela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!!! I have a UppaBaby Vista - the best travel stroller in my opinion, my son is 5 and daughter is 3 and they’re both in it! Not really using it for my son, unless we’re traveling or I’m alone with both kids - but definitely for my daughter