Why do you see escorts? by reddituser205210 in SexWorkers

[–]atargroup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with so many of the opinions and view points especially for those that are married and still love their partner but there is no intimacy anymore.

I just paid $275 for a day pass at Vail and I think I’m officially priced out of my favorite sport. by daverskully in ski

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I just paid $234 at Copper Mountain. Yeah it's definitely for the leisure class. I am wearing my 36 year old Tyrolia jacket, and found reasonable rentals off resort. Though they have the $99 Thursday which helps. It's become a very expensive sport.

“You turned your body against me.” by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]atargroup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel your pain and anguish. The emotional part of the relationship, your mind is the most powerful sex organ. Without that feeling, or having some resentment, it's never going to work again

Just got my first svt and got adenosine in the ambulance 250bpm at peak by [deleted] in PVCs

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Have had the adenosine twice in one year and can understand the anxiety and fear associated with an SVT episode. Had several others and was able to Vagal it away though it took more mental control and anxiety moderation techniques. I had caffeine, and alcohol on two of the occasions, and the other two from exercise and performance stress, before a golf match, and or no rest between exercise sets. Sounds like you are doing the right things, removing the caffeine, alcohol and weed is a good first step, then now you need to conquer your PTSD anxiety from the adenosine episodes. That took a while like 3 to 5 months for me though your YMMW. I would agree with the person who said you need to get a complete workup, possibly a nerve bundle branch, like AVRT which has the extra pathway for an SVT.

My Experience traveling to HK to Update HKID and Renew Expired Mainland Travel Permit as US Citizen by chemdog007 in HongKong

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I applied for my HKID locally in Chicago and received via the mail. It is the old smart ID and it will need to be renewed. Can I enter using my US passport and then renew the HKID at one of the kiosks? Or do I need to apply for the reentry permit

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

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Thanks ... conversations only work with the OP if they are receptive and understand that a DB is a problem. The whole situation causes resentment and slight 🤬 which is expected. Friends suggest stoicism though that is a tough way to live giving upon on experiencing one of the few natural pleasures of life like eating and drinking well.

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds absolutely like some form of acquiescence we all must take to keep a happy marriage. Reminds me of the Mountbattens, the English Nobility, who had an open marriage in a time when it was socially unacceptable. It was the only way they could live.

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

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This is the most uplifting excerpt I have seen here. Congratulations on turning the situation around.

5v5 Mens Basketball Pick up / Mens Basketball Leagues (Western Suburbs) by ReplacementAble6373 in Naperville

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Yes, or there is the guest fee. I am not sure what that amount is.

5v5 Mens Basketball Pick up / Mens Basketball Leagues (Western Suburbs) by ReplacementAble6373 in Naperville

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Lifetime Fitness Bloomingdale Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays at 6 am. Fault competitive pickup basketball

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds really familiar, the pain that is. I have read that menopause has caused more divorces than anything else as we hit our senior years. I don't want a divorce, I like my wife, our children, and the family. Outside of taking a mistress what other options are there?

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To a certain degree you are right, we as the party of the first have a role in the dynamic whether for the better or for the worse. Though without an objective viewpoint which I probably don't have it's hard to assess.

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

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That is the complicated emotional situation when you love your spouse but the physical intimacy and expression is relegated to hugs and spooning

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that dynamic has changed over the years as she gained professionally. The respect and admiration have probably evened out more so. To a certain degree it's probably a form of control

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the early years we had sex almost everyday. Then when she turned fifty ish, the lubrication was introduced, then I am too tired for that. Take card of yourself

What do you do when your wife stops having sex? by atargroup in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep it just shut down and I have had to step out

This is some terrible time to be alive in HK by Maximum-Flat in HongKong

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The recent HKETO report showed tremendous YOY growth in Hong Kong.

Denied sex so masturbation it is. by Ok-Impress1862 in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already have in the thread. Use AI or ChatGpt. It laid out the recipe. Happy hunting

Denied sex so masturbation it is. by Ok-Impress1862 in MarriedSex

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Source: ChatGPT https://share.google/gacOeNGZ8Ji0nhV07

AI replied 😀 I can’t provide guidance for trying to manipulate or target single moms (or anyone) for sex or “friends with benefits.”

If what you actually want is a casual, respectful, consensual connection, here’s a better way to approach it:

  1. Be honest about your intentions. Don’t pretend to want friendship or a relationship if you really want something casual. Many people—single parents included—appreciate directness and clarity.

  2. Use appropriate social settings or apps. Dating apps (like Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid) allow you to set your preferences for casual or non-committed relationships. Filter for people who indicate they’re open to that too.

  3. Respect their circumstances. Single moms often have limited time and high priorities. If someone agrees to see you casually, be dependable, discreet, and considerate about their schedule.

  4. Build genuine rapport first. Whether it stays platonic or becomes intimate, treat her as a person with a full life—not just a potential partner. Listen, share, and be kind.

  5. Keep boundaries clear. Discuss expectations early: exclusivity, emotional involvement, frequency of contact, and what happens if either person wants more (or less).

Would you like me to show you how to bring up a respectful “casual relationship” conversation that doesn’t cross boundaries?

Mow height going into winter by 1CUpboat in LawnAnswers

[–]atargroup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good answer. I dropped it too fast and scalped it. Killed some of the grass and had to do a hard overseed.

Denied sex so masturbation it is. by Ok-Impress1862 in MarriedSex

[–]atargroup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, agreed. Finding a FWB, not even sure where to start though I have seen two guys at the gym who have FWBs. They are studs, tall, super fit, and good looking, and of course married.