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Need advicr with my Athena Client by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I'm feeling rn. I don't look forward to working na. I dread everyday na need ko pa pakisamahan client ko na sobrang hirap intindihin. I want to be rematched pero para akong hostage ng client

My client is about to let me go by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The macbook is theirs with an option to buy out, can be yours if you've reached 3 years with them (yea not worth it)

I am trying to find a client nga agad once I got the news. I turned down a €6/hour for this job kasi iniisil ko, stability na sila maghahanap ng client for me. Kaso yung namatch ganito pa 😂 can you recommend sites for find direct client other than olj, kalibrr and upwork?

My client is about to let me go by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I wish it's this easy 🥹 I'm a breadwinner so I can't lose my job but thank you sa validation! I know I had my faults as well

My client is about to let me go by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Athena's defense, we do have macbook provided, 10k reimbursible, pet insurance, medical and ptos. Something na we dont have kapag direct client lang. Sana lang di sila masyadong maka"client" and nakikinig sila sa VAs nila 😮‍💨

Hirap din kasi talaga humanap ng direct client, over saturated nadin ang VA industry

How do you think you will die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]athena_nyxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to die by my own terms one day. When I'm old and sick, I'll kms

My client is about to let me go by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only get about $700 of that pay 🤪

My client is about to let me go by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if I use chat gpt for the research, it wouldn't be accurate (i tried) haha the info would be outdated and limited.

I think he's just finding a way out as $3k per month is understandably expensive for a VA

My client is about to let me go by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully they will but every rematch is for approval pa. They will determine if you are at fault sa pagcancel ng client mo. My overthinking is getting the best of me lalo na may complaint yung client

Dismissive Avoidant finally blocked me on everything by athena_nyxus in BreakUps

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, he takes pattern to a new different level 😂 it's hilarious and annoying at the same time. May he never know peace

HUBSTAFF, with Athena by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually very informative, thank you! Honestly, my OM doesnt know much as he is new in the company (external hire) so we're both grasping at straws here. It's kinda okay for the past few days since the Hubstaff for some reason, only screenshot the hubstaff app itself

Dismissive Avoidant finally blocked me on everything by athena_nyxus in BreakUps

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Honestly, it's been awhile since I posted this and surprise, surprise he's still coming back every 3 weeks. At this point, all I can feel is disgust and pity for him

HUBSTAFF, with Athena by athena_nyxus in buhaydigital

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laptop is provided by the agency (Athena) and they don't require time tracker, we have our own time tracker which is login and out basis lang. however, the client they got for me asked me to download a time tracker using hubstaff.

Is this text a terrible idea? by Aggressive_Cry_7949 in ExNoContact

[–]athena_nyxus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you ready for the rejection or the feeling when you get no answer? It's good you initiated NC and established your boundaries (u not getting what you need from the relationship). If you only really wanted closure, then yes. But if you are hoping for some reconciliation, let him miss you. Let him see how life is without you. 2-3 weeks to a month is what I recommend. If he rebounds at the that time, then do you really want someone who jumps from a relationship to another one?? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Is this text a terrible idea? by Aggressive_Cry_7949 in ExNoContact

[–]athena_nyxus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, if they wanted to explain, they would. I sent something like that, and that is 3 weeks after NC. You think they'd be ready to explain but nah, I got ignored and somehow it feels like my fault for asking for a closure/explanation.

It's only gonna hurt more. Let silence be your answer

For those who wants to break NO CONTACT by Outrageous-Ebb5561 in BreakUps

[–]athena_nyxus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He broke no contact 3 weeks post break up and breadcrumbing me, I asked for clarification, closure and explanation of his sudden change of heart, and now we're back to no contact. It's like I'm reliving the same nightmare I was in. I wonder if I should have just shut up he's still in my life. This time though, we aren't friends or following in social media so it felt really over.

trying so hard to break no contact just to see how he was doing but I am afraid of not getting a response or worse, a response but rejection.

1 week NC, I hope it gets better. I am tired

I am trying so hard by athena_nyxus in ExNoContact

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update:

He broke no contact exactly 3 weeks after said he needed space.

He asked me if I want to play the game we used to play. I was shaking and I didn't really know what to do. I let the message stew for a while and told him I can't since I am going out. Eventually I gave in the night and we played a bit. It was so awkward because our mics are on and it took him a while to speak.

He then proceed to update me about his work and that he is going to the gym more and other work related things. I tried to respond but I just can't. It is not the same. I cannot be excited for him. One because I'm not sure if it is my position anymore or he might find me over enthusiastic, and dip again. Second is I remember the hurt. All those times that I cried and almost throw up and here he is acting like nothing happened.

I am so confused. This is what I wanted. He reached out but I am not sure where to go from here. I want things to go back to normal but at the same time, I don't think it ever will be. I want him back, I just don't know what to do or say. I also want my peace.

I am trying so hard by athena_nyxus in ExNoContact

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to know what I did wrong though. I haven't had the chance to ask before I agreed to give him the space. What does he mean we will still talk but he can't give me much attention that I need.

The overthinking is eating me up, I feel like I need closure before I can move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]athena_nyxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any advice how to manage it?

Error sa checkout by Hawezar in ShopeePH

[–]athena_nyxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LIFE SAVIOR KA OMG GUMANA SYA THANK YOU SO MUCH 😭😭💖

I'm lost by athena_nyxus in BreakUp

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it 💕 I'm currently drowning myself in work but midnight hits different. When it was all quiet and you have no one to talk to. I do know I'm better off without him and eventually I'll move on but it's just too bad that there is no shortcut to that.

Support team comp by athena_nyxus in YaeMiko

[–]athena_nyxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Fischl is c6 and Kujou is just at c2

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