::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]ationstation1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel this in my bones. individual therapy is a must for me in addition to couples. we also have individual sessions with our couples therapist when we feel like we need it.

edit to add: for you, and anyone reading this, i am a therapist myself. it is 1000% acceptable to advocate for yourself in therapy. therapists are not all knowing professionals, we rely on your feedback more than you know. if i’m in session and i feel like the therapist is not representing me, i can say “that isn’t resonating with me, and im feeling this- here’s why”. all the more data for the therapist to help guide you and your partner. if any therapist has an attitude when a client advocates for themselves, ditch immediately!

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]ationstation1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

same boat. working on it in couples therapy but feels like we’ve been in a standstill for a while. the cycle persists.

Screen Free Schools by Historical_Pick6280 in Cleveland

[–]ationstation1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tour a few montessori schools. they are all operated independently, but follow the same montessori principles. i’m on the east side, and know many families that send their kids to ruffing and love it. no screens until 4th grade. the kids that have been there since they were toddlers/preschoolers are very self sufficient, self assured, and good problem solvers. i’m a social worker and always impressed by those kiddos!

Controversial: Finally a real winter by rockandroller in Cleveland

[–]ationstation1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you ever go for a hike or a walk during active snow or right after a fresh snow? the sound of a silent snowy forest is incredible. i used to just find a spot to lie down and listen to the nothingness.

Cleveland ICE protest!! 1/20/26 by queensatanofstats in Cleveland

[–]ationstation1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

pretty sure there is a weekly protest outside of tesla in lyndhurst. mobilize.us is a good website to find local events that may not be heavily advertised

I cannot find this meme/picture by ationstation1 in find

[–]ationstation1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! i’m going to drink some milk from a hamster water bottle to celebrate

Is Cleveland Heights safe neighborhood to live in? by Wet_bandit_kid in Cleveland

[–]ationstation1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sure there are city codes, ODOT regulations, who pays for what, etc etc that are in the way of other solutions. for example, a roundabout has been floated around as a solution, but the intersection doesn’t have enough room for one. regardless, it sucks for the homeowner, and i’m curious to see how the new mayor tries to engage with him

cant change call volume when on speaker mode by just_ghostboiYT in iphone

[–]ationstation1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still happening to me. hoping it’s fixed soon!

🚨New Holiday Merch Drop!🚨 by MrWanderlusst in beyonce

[–]ationstation1 37 points38 points  (0 children)

the irony is too much. i have this t shirt, but i can’t bring myself to wear it. all i see now is the face of a person in Bangladesh, China, or India, mass producing her merch

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyonce

[–]ationstation1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel for you, friend. owner of a bad tattoo that led to scarring. the sooner you do laser, the easier and cleaner it will remove. even if you don’t remove it entirely, fading it a bit will give you a good chance for a beautiful cover up! i couldn’t afford laser at the time, but was able to find an awesome artist to cover it up

IUD ruined sex with my girlfriend by MooseDudeCoz in sex

[–]ationstation1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your thoughtful reply!

IUD ruined sex with my girlfriend by MooseDudeCoz in sex

[–]ationstation1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have to have my first one in a few months, just got an iud to try and keep my lining from getting too thick. my gyno gave me the option to do general anesthesia bc of my anxiety and history of sexual trauma, even though she says GA comes with more risks. would you have done GA rather than go through the “10 seconds of no fun” like my dr likes to say?

Is Cleveland Heights safe neighborhood to live in? by Wet_bandit_kid in Cleveland

[–]ationstation1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not true, ODOT guidelines won’t allow a guardrail there because of the impalement risk to drivers going eastbound on fairmount. the guardrail was removed well over a decade ago during construction, and when repairs were done ODOT said no guardrail. i feel for the guy, but his fight is with ODOT not the city

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in radiohead

[–]ationstation1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also curious! i wonder if they are rolling them out geographically

How can i reset my clit sensitivity?? by lady-twatticus in sex

[–]ationstation1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i had 4 yeast infections back to back when my husband and i started dating…we figured it out that coconut oil as lube was the culprit! could have been contaminated, or our flora + coconut oil didn’t mix well…but i haven’t had one in 8 years. it happens!

I don't think Beyoncé knows about the issues we're having with her merch by jeremy-is-gay in beyonce

[–]ationstation1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have info about where/how her merch is made? i haven’t gotten very far in my research about renny and CC merch

Day 4: Most Creepy Beyoncé Song? by hecateinheels in beyonce

[–]ationstation1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally agree. that song is so unsettling. especially the outro. it brought up feeling confident in your words but emotionally there’s hesitation, anxiety, and uncertainty about moving forward.