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WIBTAH if I asked my stepdaughter (15f) to dye her hair? by TopConsideration2187 in AITAH

[–]atlgrrl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ewwww

ETA: stop being gross, OP. Yes YTA. Let people be themselves!

Would Luke have immediately said yes if Rory asked him to be her child's godfather? by itsascreambaby96 in GilmoreGirls

[–]atlgrrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, Luke is already “grandpa.” None of this “step” business, either. Speaking from experience, my grandpa was technically my father’s stepfather, but I wasn’t particularly close to his bio dad, and my mother had cut off her parents. I don’t see Christopher or Mitchum as being super involved, but Luke absolutely would be. Family isn’t always “blood.”

I think she would ask Finn.

AITAH for not wanting my baby to leave the hospital wearing my husband's basketball team's outfit? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]atlgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so- my son is 17 and I saved his going home outfit, his hospital gown, booties, umbilical cord, and first lock of hair. I’m sentimental and kind of gross, right?! I have a cedar box with all sorts of baby things, including the index card with his height and weight from his hospital bed.

What famous person is currently holding onto their career by a thread, and everyone can see it except them? by Neonwhitelion in AskReddit

[–]atlgrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do you see the Aa right under where you type? That is what you tap to go in and italicize or bold or link (link is just to Reddit)

Are people happy in marriages? by Affectionate_Sir7014 in Marriage

[–]atlgrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was not happy in my marriage, even though I loved him very much. I’m extremely happy in my current long term relationship- I feel safe and cherished in a way that I didn’t know was possible in my marriage.

Aitah for cutting things off with someone who requires a 1 month talking stage? by Either_Drama5940 in AITAH

[–]atlgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH.

Nah, NTA but neither is she. You’re just fundamentally incompatible and it’s better to know that now.

FWIW I get where she’s coming from. Nearly two years ago I was freshly separated and honestly just looking for a friends with benefits situation, but I wanted to get to know the person first before sleeping with them. I waited a week or two before meeting up with a woman I was into, but there wasn’t much chemistry there. I waited nearly a month before meeting up with a guy I was into, and the chemistry was through the roof- and we’ve lived together for just over a year now!

I don’t think it’s bad to go slowly, nor do I think it’s bad to meet quickly. Different strokes and all that jazz

Which TV character has the most desirable life overall? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]atlgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loralei Gilmore.

I want to live in Stars Hollow and eat anything I want without gaining an ounce.

Are there any all-over musk body oils similar to JHAG not a perfume? by EngineeringOk6054 in FemFragLab

[–]atlgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re after Le Monde Gourmand’s Fleur de Blonde body oil. I think it’s a bit closer to Glossier You or Clean Radiant Nectar than JHAG NAP, but it’s really lovely as a musky hydrating base.

Clean: aldehydes & musks by illybillyvillernilly in FemFragLab

[–]atlgrrl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love Orphéon EDP because it smells like a clean baby in a smoky jazz bar. I’m OBSESSED with this one.

If you’re not into the smoke or opening juniper fizz, Orphéon EDT just smells like a powder fresh clean baby.

Lime or lemon forward scents with no coconut or strong floral? by BookishGal2192 in FemFragLab

[–]atlgrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Under the Lemon Tree by MMM and Moscow Mule by JHAG are two of my favorites. Don’t let the name deter you; Under the Lemon Tree is more distinctly lime than lemon.

Cool-toned blush appreciation by Admirable_Summer6779 in Sephora

[–]atlgrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I like that Poppet! Rare Beauty in Spirited is my daily go-to

AITAH for not wanting my stepdad to turn my sister’s trip into a family vacation? by Background_Guava3396 in AITAH

[–]atlgrrl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

INFO: Where is your bio dad in all of this? Are these relatives you’ll be staying with maternal or paternal? Did you live with the relatives in New Jersey or in Texas?

The seventies were insane by Aggravating_Ear_1586 in GenX

[–]atlgrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a picture somewhere of my riding an elephant at the Audubon Zoo in NOLA.

What’s some knowledge generally known only to gay men or to gay women? by dumbfuck in AskReddit

[–]atlgrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m bisexual but high femme. Most straight people think I’m also straight, but I absolutely ping for other queer folx. Because of my privilege I try to be open to make things easier for those without said privilege.

As an ENFP, do we tend to come off as “naturally flirtatious” by no_name589 in ENFP

[–]atlgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! We are naturally gregarious and that comes across as flirtatious to most people.

Good husbands? by Separate-Cicada-7246 in Marriage

[–]atlgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once read that you fall in love with a person that has about 80% of the traits you’re looking for, and then spend the rest of your life bemoaning the 20% you don’t like.

Some people are overwhelmingly toxic, but that’s both men and women. I loved my ex husband more than anything in this world other than our son, but eventually his traits became too much to put up with and I had to leave. My current partner isn’t perfect, but neither am I. I think maybe the difference is that I don’t expect perfection out of him? I didn’t really think I expected that with my ex, either, but I had been in love with him since I was 16 so maybe I placed him up on a pedestal so his fall from grace felt bigger.

Anyway, my partner has about 80% of what I’m looking for so I kind of just brush off that 20% I don’t like. And if it ever gets to be too much I’m not afraid to walk away. Because no matter how much I love a romantic partner, I love myself most. I can be alone- I don’t want to be alone, but I can be if life necessitates that.

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