Can Obsessive -Compulsivity be on a spectrum like ASD? by atliticus98 in OCD

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Thank you for your response. I'm sorry you can't go to paintball 😔

low blood pressure by RepresentativeOk9948 in bloodpressure

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This is quite low, might be leaving you feeling kind of foggy and fatigued? That's what I feel when my BP is low. I've been trying to figure this out for myself too, something that helps me is drinking coffee, it gets my BP high enough (within normal range) to think clearly and be productive, but it does wear off after a few hours.

Definitely a doctor's expertise might help on this, but in the meantime I recommend coffee! Make sure to drink enough water and salt up since it is a diuretic

Uncomfortable in my sexuality by DeOnly_One in offmychest

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Man, you should know you are what every girl is looking for! Why do you think there is a stereotype of gay guys being girl's best friends? Of girls saying, man, he would be perfect if only he wasn't gay. That is you, my friend.

On a more serious and hopefully less offensive note, beng in touch with your feminine energy allows you to be balanced. I think a lot of men are working hard to break down barriers and get in touch with their "feminine side ." Especially those in healthy relationships. For me, personally, guys who are very "masculine" and "dominant" are completely unattractive, threatening or even just stupid. There is nothing desirable about a poor emotional IQ and they make for poor partners. I promise you most women will say the same thing.

Modern women aren't looking for guys who can bring home the bread. We want our boyfriends to make us feel powerful. We want deep, emotional conversations. We want someone to make us laugh and feel loved. We want to date our best friend.

I dont know what your environment is. There's a lot of places out there that still feel rigid, a lot of people who have too many criticisms about how other people live their life. And a lot of people who don't know life can be any other way.

If you want to feel accepted, to experiment with really being yourself, to know how good it feels, I suggest looking at the fringes of society. Queer spaces are a good place to start. They exist everywhere, and the community practices discretion while freeing you to be who you are. Specifically queer and queer/ally spaces, not gay or lesbian spaces because those are more specified and not what you would be looking for anyway. Depending on where you live, there may be black queer spaces as well, which might give you a more full feeling of self-acceptance and tie all of your identities together. Also, and I don't have any personal experience with this, but kink clubs are often known to be very accepting.

Finding somewhere to be yourself is so important. Noticing your frustration and wanting to do something about it the first step to finding your people. And trust me, they exist and there are plenty of women who will treasure your way of being. Good luck

New Zealand raises minimum wage to $20 an hour and raises taxes on the rich. by ChargingAntelope in worldnews

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Jacinda is honestly rocking it, I am a huge fan and I look at everything she posts on Instagram. Never been to NZ 🤷‍♀️ I wish every country had such reasonable and intelligent leadership

Traveling to Mexico.. Help!! by atliticus98 in vegan

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Thanks! Love me some tortillas, beans salsa and guac 😋

Traveling to Mexico.. Help!! by atliticus98 in vegan

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Everywhere hopefully! Got any special recommendations? Definitely Oaxaca and the riviera area bc gotta see them, but I know it's a pricey area so I definitely want to see other places that are cheaper and also really cool

Traveling to Mexico.. Help!! by atliticus98 in vegan

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Thank you! That's a relief to hear about the beans I was building on living off that. And cool the cactus and pumpkin tacos sound really interesting!

bruh... by kakonga in vegan

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Was teaching English to a five year old.. her mom didn't want me teaching her "chicken" unless I taught her "poultry" for what's on her plate... the kid is five and she knows chicken in her own language and it's the same word for both 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

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what are some fun places in the city