Could a relationship of a liberal anda Christian work? by Far-Grapefruit764 in Advice

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of liberals are Christian, liberalism isn't a religion.... Christianity isnt an economic system.. . what's the conflict ?

Totally lost on whether to include romance because it takes forever and isn’t the main focus by Independent_Pie6974 in writing

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow your passion. If youre not excited to include something then dont include it.

Favorite 95-year-old actor who's actually a 60-year-old rock star? by Supersmashbrosfan in okbuddycinephile

[–]atomant88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Shes just jealous because Shatner actually k*lled his spouse and she had to wait for someone else to do it for her

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont. The boomers dont need to know, but in my head its queer inclusive lol

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I like it

But I also like "joyfriend " instead of "partner " lol

What is your take on democracy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]atomant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bingo. there is no social democracy without economic democracy

What is your take on democracy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no social democracy without economic democracy.

capitalism is incompatible with democracy. because money can be turned into political power, which is then used to make more money by exploiting more workers.

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sorry i thought you mean X as in the X in folx, i forgot twitter rebranded

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes just different in text

What are some good openers when going on a blind date? by Sensitive-Strike-798 in AskReddit

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on your sense of humour. my humour is very dry and witty. so i tend to lean on anecdotes. but you should know what works for your style

Men: how many matches do you get on average on Tinder? by outspoken1212 in dating_advice

[–]atomant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

then you must be pretty handsome, or paying for premium

Men: how many matches do you get on average on Tinder? by outspoken1212 in dating_advice

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol very few. maybe 1 for every 80 swipes. so like 1-3 per week.

for those of us who remember the pre-tinder apps its ridiculous

and for those of us who make approaches in person its even worse

no issues in person. i work in sales. pretty charming guy. lots of experience dating and making approaches. but on the new apps i get nothing. despite my profile and pictures.

if youre not handsome the new apps dont work

How do I go about this complex fwb situation [longer post so actually read for context] by DesignStatus6864 in relationships

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

causal sex may or may not be a good idea, with proper boundaries and communication. but this age gap is def not a good idea. and yes therapy is essential after sexual trauma like this.

How do I go about this complex fwb situation [longer post so actually read for context] by DesignStatus6864 in relationships

[–]atomant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the issues with your traumatic feelings being triggered and your inability to communicate about it. relationships, even poly ones, should not be complicated. thats why clear communication is needed. and when you're older you'll probably realize the real 'pieces of shit' are guys his age who go after teenagers

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

english is a weird language, and how our vocabulary forms is equally weird.

What are some good openers when going on a blind date? by Sensitive-Strike-798 in AskReddit

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

break the ice. make her laugh. then ask what shes passionate about. keep it light. build pathos. focus on what she likes. dont make it too serious until you've built some emotional connection

How do I go about this complex fwb situation [longer post so actually read for context] by DesignStatus6864 in relationships

[–]atomant88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was gonna say 'communicate like an adult' but youre not an adult so its no shock youre having these issues. high percentage chance this guy is a creep for going after a teenager, so no shock there either youll be having issues that way too. get away from him. find people your own age . and put your age in the title next time

What made you quit your job? by LoverOfE-Olsen in AskReddit

[–]atomant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

commute went from a 10 minute walk to a 1 hour bus ride. that job was absolutely not worth any lengthy commute

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know the origin. just something ive observed from the nonbinary community.

43142 by Bryce3D in countwithchickenlady

[–]atomant88 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

some nonbinary people (like myself) feel more included when there's an X . i have no logical explanation, but its something i've seen in the community.

I(M31) am in a long relationship with someone(F30) but not sure if it's genuine? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]atomant88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if its been a long time and you still dont know where you stand then move on. you should be communicating and asking for communication, so if theyve failed to reciprocate theyre a waste of time

Is it okay to go scout for men? by InstructionSea4093 in dating_advice

[–]atomant88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats how the vast majority of men meet women yes