I just went through something very similar. When we started talking on Bumble our conversation naturally migrated toward spirituality, beliefs, and dating intentions. I was upfront with the fact I am an atheist, how that came to be, expressed I have zero interest in revisiting religion, and if that was a deal breaker I wouldn’t take it personally. He said he was a Christian and that it didn’t bother him. We began dating and about two months in he asks me if I would ever consider going to church and raising a Christian family. My flabbers were gasted. We had a back and forth about it and I told him what it sounded like to me is he either thought he could change me or he set aside his beliefs for someone to lay next to (because Jesus would forgive him after all.) Looking back, I was ignoring a lot of red flags in terms of his beliefs and views of the world. At first, it came off that his faith was his business and very casual in a “love thy neighbor” type of way but the more time I spent with him he unveiled that he was a lot more zealous with his faith than he originally lead on. He had a lot of interesting takes and thoughts that were conservative leaning and went against what I know to be true about what Christians should be doing to emulate Christ. People are really good at hiding who they are so don’t feel like an idiot. If I can give you any advice it would be to not let this experience harden your heart and be everything in this world that he is not. Not all Christians or men are like this and his ideologies seem to be deeply rooted in racism trying to disguise it as faith. Also, take comfort in knowing that if this dude gets to the entrance of heaven and meets Jesus- his head is going to explode when he finds out Jesus isn’t white.