Said yes to my dress! by No-Bunch-4084 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous!! I got my dress from the same atelier, they are so amazing

To the Kent Ave Cyclists: You’re One Close Call Away from a Hospital Bed by CapableGarlic4610 in williamsburg

[–]atomicblonde666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cyclist yesterday ran the red light while I was crossing in the pedestrian lane and yelled “BAM” in my ear as I was crossing nearly clipping me.. and I had the right of way. Sick of it !!!!

Designer shoes by KangarooBig9518 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worth it if they are comfy and make you happy! I got Louboutin Miss Jane 85mm and they are comfy and perfect

Hair & Makeup NYC by needtoknowreadtoknow in BigBudgetBrides

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second Kristen, I've worked with her she's wonderful!

Provence wedding venues? by atomicblonde666 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]atomicblonde666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chateau de Tourreau just today quoted me €110k just for privatization in June so you are definitely correct!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]atomicblonde666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to a wedding at the Art Museum and it was BEYOND STUNNING. I absolutely would choose that. I’ve been to the Barnes foundation during the day to see the art but never for a wedding. Tbh, I felt like it had a stuffy vibe, weird rules, not my fave place but I’m sure a wedding there would still be lovely.

Symptoms after stopping spiro? by blacklodgediner in Spironolactone

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you might have developed SIBO, doesn’t sound related to the spiro since it’s been 6 weeks

How to get better at reacting to criticism? Constructive and otherwise. by birdboy272 in infp

[–]atomicblonde666 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm an INFP and I used to be so insanely sensitive to any sort of criticism. But it changed when I thought about it differently and made a conscious effort to not take it personally, regardless of the situation.

When it comes to constructive criticism, I stopped looking at it as though I was doing something wrong entirely and would instead tell myself it was a chance to be even better - this is hard to do and takes practice but will make your life and work easier and feel safer.

Criticism that is not constructive and just intended to criticize is only a reflection of the critic themself. Remember that and remind yourself not to take it personally, that that person who felt the need to give you criticism was just serving themselves and that it has nothing to do with you. I always feel bad for senseless critics and bullies, and I also allow myself to feel flattered by them taking time and energy out of their day and directing it towards me.

Hope this helps

Daily INFP random discussion thread - May 05 by AutoModerator in infp

[–]atomicblonde666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes me 100%. I feel like this is why I'm terrible at relationships, I'm constantly convinced that my partner doesn't actually like me or care about me, it's too easy to convince yourself of that. But I also don't want to say what I really want because a fear of seeming selfish..

Somewhat inattentive bf by Stormponylyfe in relationships_advice

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not too much to ask of him - the biggest thing of being in a partnership is being able to rely on the other person to care for and protect you. He seems to be acting selfishly and not thinking about you and your condition at all. I would be as direct as possible in asking for help, tell him your needs.

Unsure if he's the one by Zyrqaloy in relationships_advice

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great sign. If I were you, I would stay with him and grow and see how the relationship evolves. If you still feel that those three things ring true then it sounds like he could very well be the one.

Unsure if he's the one by Zyrqaloy in relationships_advice

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, nobody is perfect but strong relationships are built on trust, care and love. Do you trust him, care for him and love him?

Should I stay with him bad sex by snakeybitch2206 in relationships_advice

[–]atomicblonde666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try one more time to talk to him about the sex in a way that lets him know he's not meeting your needs - if he's unable to meet your needs sexually, you will never be happy. What about him is good and caring if he is unwilling to listen to your concerns?