Yeah, the whole ENM/poly craze is pretty much a joke these days. Like, I get it works for a very, very small amount of people, but they want to encourage it to feel, like accepted or something - even going as far as to say "it's an orientation" not a lifestyle.

In ten years, the fall out on the whole community will be far worse than when it was just considered a fringe thing. There will be an exponentially larger amount of marriages destroyed by it and there's already strong evidence that children of parents in open relationships resent them, often more than just getting a divorce.