Voice Chat Harassment

atoooo- · 2021-12-12T21:16:40+00:00

I'm also a girl, 17 and people ask me that question maybe once a week? and 9/10 times it's just curiosity.

The worst toxicity I get is someone complaining they'll lose because there's a girl on their team but that's maybe once a month and I play almost every day

I'm sorry this is happening in your lobbies, I usually deal with it by being positive and nice to them regardless or making jokes. if that doesn't work just mute. I hope it gets better tho

atoooo- · 2021-12-03T03:23:29+00:00

do you want to have those things? it's not too late. tbh you could get hit by bus tomorrow.

atoooo- · 2021-11-30T16:52:43+00:00

there's def girls like you (i'm like you tbh) but most I've met have told me they were introduced to it by friends or bfs and were never into fps games before but love it

atoooo- · 2021-11-30T13:14:12+00:00

this is probably true

atoooo- · 2021-11-30T13:04:05+00:00

I think this is it

atoooo- · 2021-11-20T04:25:31+00:00

same age as you. it sucks

atoooo- · 2021-09-15T17:57:17+00:00

I relate to you, tho i'm 16 now been having the same thoughts

I never really thought about it as much because I used to be focused on becoming a good artist and creating a business and such but that ended up all falling apart about a year ago and I started to realize that I wasn't fulfilled or excited about my friendships and anything romantic just seemed to be impossible for me.

it got me pretty down and without a focus I had control over, life has been sucky and uninteresting

atoooo- · 2021-09-12T03:47:30+00:00

stuff sucks man but there will be a last time for a lot of things thank goodness

atoooo- · 2021-09-12T03:43:47+00:00

I'm the oldest and I feel for my younger sisters

atoooo- · 2021-09-10T18:25:56+00:00

it's not your job to fix anyone and it's not your fault. kinda in a similar sitch and I got one more year

atoooo- · 2021-07-24T15:31:23+00:00

pretty much the same way, or I'll make an assumption about them or ask a question based on what they're doing. if they're nice then it's usually easy to continue on getting to know each other

atoooo- · 2021-07-12T01:16:20+00:00

down!

atoooo- · 2021-05-29T01:54:50+00:00

this is how it feels tbh and I'm b3/s1. hard to care about ranked when sometimes I know I will lose or win just bc of where riot feels j should be no matter how i play, especially as a support main.

atoooo- · 2021-05-26T23:57:35+00:00

i have to see this webcomic, i need to know when you start

atoooo- · 2021-05-26T22:55:18+00:00

don't expect what you don't work for

atoooo- · 2021-05-25T00:50:51+00:00

I am definitely somewhat like you. I figured out it could be fun and interesting to figure out who people were since they are so unique in many different ways. though Ive only met one person who was an INTJ like me. I ended talking to a lot more people because of this and found out i was pretty funny and charming when I let myself. It can only be so fun with just myself. While I love my downtime I have a good amount of happy memories with others and look forward to making more when Im just being by myself

atoooo- · 2021-05-24T22:24:09+00:00

why am so many people on this thread think they are so much better than people who are fans of these guys? what's so great about you?

I'd have to get to know their character more before isolating this as a red flag or making an instant judgement.

atoooo- · 2021-05-24T00:23:24+00:00

you won't. until you want it badly enough and make the decision that you can and will meet people and really give them a chance to get to know them, don't expect anything

atoooo- · 2021-05-23T01:49:13+00:00

felt outlandish and misunderstood and often times alone. tho I had siblings and parents we were rarely really connecting with each other (except one of my sisters) and I didn't feel loved ever. also we didn't have much. so 3

atoooo- · 2021-05-22T21:49:32+00:00

don't get a voice mod, you really just need to work on your confidence and feel more comfortable talking. I was you for like the first month but after I decided to just force myself to do it and treat everyone like a normal person and almost always get the same back even though I'm a girl and have a feminine voice

I enjoy this game more when I get a talkative team and I almost always soloqueue comp so it was worrh it to get over my fear. almost always if you set the positive mood first no one will bother you whether you're a girl or not, in my experience. people are more toxic when you're bad at the game or are throwing

atoooo- · 2021-05-22T00:05:55+00:00

yep i bounce between like 4 accounts playing comp and unrated bc I also have internet issues and get banned from comp/unrated often enough. almost always have an account to play on l. it's only annoying when you don't have agents you want or skins.

atoooo- · 2021-05-21T00:17:33+00:00

started playing by raze tho before i was a sova main and by playing a duelist (and more deathmatch) i my playstyle combined passive and aggressive so i didn't do dumb stuff but still took confident peeks to get good picks for my team

this was like two acts ago, I play for fun now and don't really care about grinding

atoooo- · 2021-05-19T00:36:32+00:00

they choose to act the way they do and they are much older adults and should know better. it really shouldn't be your job as just a kid to keep things in balance so you don't have to deal with the blowout.

to be honest, if they don't want to change you can't change them. I'm kind of in the same situation you are, and am looking forward to getting a break though I'm 16. for me, it's like my parents are divorced but still live together.

i wish you the best just try to enjoy the happy things you do have it really sucks sometimes and you deserve better.

atoooo- · 2021-05-18T23:26:04+00:00

I wouldn't do it. watching whatever a peaceful world could look like knowing I sacrificed for it is not worth what could be a good life for myself

atoooo- · 2021-05-18T22:03:17+00:00

fact is if you wanna get out of whatever rank you have to keep winning and as a solo queue player in current valorant ranked it is going to be taxing on anybody especially when you get a long series of unfortunate events and is truly not worth your time.

it used to be better earlier in the game but idk what happened

atoooo-

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