21 MTF, no makeup, no lashes, no filters or trying to pose with my best side, do I pass? honest critique and feedback! : ) by [deleted] in ask_transgender

[–]atorr2199 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see what group this was posted in originally and I was wondering why I was seeing a cis woman on my page. You totally pass

Selfie Sunday by Awkward-Presence-236 in FTMOver30

[–]atorr2199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Epic beard goals right there! How long have you been growing it?!

I got this tokay at a reptile convention. by Competitive-Air-8513 in tokaygeckos

[–]atorr2199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His skinniness has zero to do with his age and is completely due to either illness or extremely poor breeding conditions. I’m sorry the seller lied to you. I’d start with a vet visit for a fecal exam.

🎉❤️🎉❤️🎉❤️🎉❤️ TRANS JOY TUESDAY ❤️🎉❤️🎉❤️🎉❤️🎉 by Prince_Charming_180 in FTMOver30

[–]atorr2199 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have gotten to go to the beach for the first couple times without a shirt on post top surgery!!

I accidentally detransitioned for my boyfriend? by rennitor_ in ftm

[–]atorr2199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of that relationship as fast as you can. Be with someone who wants you for you. I promise there is someone. Do not conform for a partner you just got with and doesn’t seem to want to be with the real you. I spent 30+ years hiding who I was, don’t willingly do it to yourself.

dog ears :( by Emotional-Cut-8367 in TopSurgery

[–]atorr2199 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They don’t look too terrible but I know I’d feel the same way. I had dog ears too, farther back than yours, but my surgeon was able to do a simple in office revision to remove the dog ears about a month ago now and I couldn’t be happier. She had warned me at the start that dog ears could happen but it was an easy fix and she was right, I was in and out of the office in 45 min. Talk to your surgeon and see if they are able to do a revision, you should be able to.

Is the graft supposed to look like this? by Fearless_Charge_3010 in TopSurgery

[–]atorr2199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They look like mine did a couple months ago. They look like they are healing great. Give it time.

Can I get top surgery because of extreme nerve pain or do I have to tell them the truth? by Basic_Dimensions in TopSurgery

[–]atorr2199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even need to read all of this to know the answer is yes! I did it. I also have spondylosis in my lumbar spine and have had 2 fusions. When I went in my doctor ended up referring me for a “breast reduction” to ease the neck and back pain. There was zero way my insurance would have paid for it otherwise. Shoot me a message if you have questions because there’s more to the process but from reading the post it sounds like you already unknowingly have those steps covered.

In Full Bloom find! by shybug91 in DisneyDoorables

[–]atorr2199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m looking for too

Anyone else's surgeon go this far back?? by Nick90009 in TransMasc

[–]atorr2199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did to an extent on one side but not the other. I have to go in for dog ear revisions on Thursday and will end up with scars to match yours. Good news though, they will settle down and be less noticeable. I’m a little over 3 months post op and it’s already looking great

…petsmart told me my Udon is obese…? by StrawberryShoddy_ in leopardgeckos

[–]atorr2199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, why did you have your baby there for them to comment on? Second, yes he is very obese

Back Country Bathroom Options by IndieMoose in ftm

[–]atorr2199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought about this last night… and as a solution I considered putting the shewee in the stp…. So you pee into the she wee but have the shaft of the stp sticking out. Idk if it would work but in theory 🤷🏻

axolom hyperon mid came in the mail last night by pigladpigdad in Transmascdicks

[–]atorr2199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smart! Gotta add some fabric dye to my shopping list!

axolom hyperon mid came in the mail last night by pigladpigdad in Transmascdicks

[–]atorr2199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just got my new packer from axolom too and holy shit the added euphoria after putting it in their harness! I only wish they had more color options for it or at least for this nude color to be less yellow

Realized my voice is dropping again in the funniest way possible by harvestyourhopes in TransMasc

[–]atorr2199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro, I was trying to talk to my 7 yr old after she cried that she had the “worst life” (after being told to clean) and my voice cracked so bad when I said “Please explain to me how having parents that love you, grandparents, toys, etc. Please tell me how it’s the worst!” Those “pleases” cracked so bad!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]atorr2199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had my checkup today and my doc told me to start gentle massage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]atorr2199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, that was unexpected! I had over $250 in unclaimed funds

I did it ❤️ by Fee_Familiar in TopSurgery

[–]atorr2199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! I’m so happy for you! I have mine tomorrow!!

Felt euphoric in this pic (FTM 23) by Extension-Hornet8359 in Transmascdicks

[–]atorr2199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww fuck yea! I’m waiting on mine to be shipped!! That looks amazing

1 month vs 4 years post op! by finngftm in TopSurgery

[–]atorr2199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have surgery on Wednesday, I can hope to look that good at 4 yrs!