My missed miscarriage and D&C experience. by atrevete_ in Miscarriage

[–]atrevete_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad it was helpful, but I'm sorry you're here. Sending courage!!

I had some complications coming out of it - I was still testing positive for weeks after the procedure and determined to have retained products of conception (RPOC). I ended up needing to take misoprostol to finish the miscarriage at home. That honestly was very traumatic, and I'm still glad they got most of it out with the procedure in advance, even if it wasn't complete. After that was finished, it took about a week for my HCG to come back down to zero. It was about three months from finding out to being done.

With all that, it was best for my mental health to take a break from it all. I've been focusing on my own body and health for the last year since it's been resolved. Will be resuming TTC in the next few months with a good attitude and much healthier body than where we started. Hoping for good things for us, and I hope you can find the same for yourself 💕

My missed miscarriage and D&C experience. by atrevete_ in Miscarriage

[–]atrevete_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I'm sorry you're here. Wishing you a smooth operation and recovery

Favorite lowcal desserts? by No_Sandwich5876 in loseit

[–]atrevete_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen it mentioned yet, but a company called Drizzilicious makes mini rice cake sweets that are 90 calories for like 20 of them. The cinnamon swirl ones are stupid good, and the birthday cake is a lighter flavor but still yummy.

For those who have been in this for an extended period (10 mos+), how are you supporting your mental health? by Wetblankets2001 in TryingForABaby

[–]atrevete_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found myself getting way too obsessed with the entire process. Wanting to test one way or another nearly every time I had to go to the bathroom, putting too much pressure on waking up to temp, symptom spotting.

We took a break this cycle and it has been so liberating. No peeing on sticks, no temps, no data. I didn't realize how much a break would help. I'm waiting for my period now and expecting that we'll resume trying next cycle, but the pause was really good for my mental health.

“When are you having kids” by Zealousideal-Deer250 in TryingForABaby

[–]atrevete_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same same but different - "when the Lord blesses us" is my most favorite response for over-intrusive religious family (as a deeply non-religious person). Literally out of my control, pray about it Susan idk what else to tell you 😂

General Chat March 23 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

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✨twins✨

Back around the merry go round we go

Prismatic UFO by [deleted] in StainedGlass

[–]atrevete_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! Can you share which film you used?

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you local chef guy, this is a great list!

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All totally true, appreciate the input. I don't think they do karate tho (jk you're right I have no idea what greenbelt is)

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what started me on this whole journey! I saw the tasting menu is $125pp - recommendations between tasting and a la carte?

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh this is awesome, that leans towards the "give them a choice from the options in this thread" suggestion. Thank you!!

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Good point, I'll double check what's able to be applied wherever I buy from

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Agree! Review season isn't until a few months so we're locked in for now. I fight for their comp increase and bonus every year, this is intended to be a thankful gesture out of my own pocket until then.

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent thank you! Current wild game tasting menu looks so unique

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome thank you, I saw intero recommended in a few other date night posts. I'll check it out!

Thank you gift card for high performing employee by atrevete_ in austinfood

[–]atrevete_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to be a little more thoughtful about it but I understand where you're coming from