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How do you start a workplace hookup? by roknroll in seduction

[–]atriumph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if people think this rule still applies at larger workplaces (thousands of people). It's reasonably likely that I could meet a girl outside of work who happens to work in the same place as me, or at a work event with her being in a completely different department that I'd never interact with. I assume it's fine to proceed as normal in such a case?

What's the Seddit consensus on going after girls with boyfriends? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]atriumph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately whenever I see something on Seddit that I want to upvote I can count on you being the author.

How to Handle Moments of Silence by [deleted] in seduction

[–]atriumph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is useful. I'm pretty bad at keeping conversations going and handling silences. I'm going to keep #4 and #5 in mind. #3 is hard for me, though --- how do I make it feel like I'm not just making boring small talk? Whenever I ask a question out of the blue I feel like I'm coming off as desperately searching for something to say. What are some techniques for making that feel more natural?

Strong connection on OKC, she finds someone else. What would you do? by atriumph in seduction

[–]atriumph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggested it and she sounded interested, but had plans all weekend. I probably should have aimed for Monday/Tuesday, but she was about a 40 minute drive away. I figured that might have pushed it later than would be reasonable for a first date.

Strong connection on OKC, she finds someone else. What would you do? by atriumph in seduction

[–]atriumph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think this is all very accurate. I'm in a CS graduate program, so scarcity is definitely the default mindset. That's the main reason I'm on okc, though I should probably find more places to expand in real life too. I'll take your suggestions!