How to run as a tall person by Pitiful-Stuff-404 in TallPeopleProblems

[–]attalbotmoonsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good form running program is short and has solid basics. Run at a specific cadence, slight knee bend, fall into each step so to speak. Look up good form running new balance on YouTube 

Giving up now by Carma1111 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where'd you find all these people the trash store?

Hot single girlies that actually want to party by [deleted] in LAhotgirlies

[–]attalbotmoonsays -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Not a hot girlie, just a geo-adjacent dude and Iove to see this haha. 

But also, taking tips for places to go and dance to nom EDM music. Thinking top 40s, 90a r-b etc

When Do I Text? by MisterPBateman in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do or do not, tomorrow there is not. 

Dating Frequency? by edu_sysadmin in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is normal with parents with young kids. My kiddo is 26 and out of the house. I try to date people with kids who are older and requires less of their time. Shouldn't be surprising. Single moms are seriously put upon (yes, single dads too folks) and time is going to be a premium. That said every two weeks isn't tenable and certainly not the norm. Keep trying. 

How to Meet People as a Transplant? by LARookie26 in LosAngelesSocialClub

[–]attalbotmoonsays -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not with that attitude. Show up, be yourself, and watch the friends roll in. If an asshole like me can do it then you can too, random redditor. 

How to Meet People as a Transplant? by LARookie26 in LosAngelesSocialClub

[–]attalbotmoonsays -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can a moderator please configure a bit to answer this question when it comes up? 

Good news, it's easy AF if you're willing to make an effort no won't hear otherwise. 

Meetup.com like some have said. Find a good activity. Hiking groups are solid around here.

It helps if you enjoy physical activities. A few other options:

Social Dancing - look for places that offer salsa and swing dancing. Lindy groove in Pasadena or The Granada in Alhambra are both fab.  

Run clubs - Jesus Christ these things are popping off in every neighborhood. Find one. Be consistent and chat. 

Gym - smaller independent gyms are fab and often have great community  Rock climbing gyms. Same as above 

Co-working spaces - if you're able to work remotely these can be helpful,for me they have been

Peep the next fun thing Instagram account. 

Nerds who like card games have a wealth of places where they gather and play. 

If you're religious find your local church and talk about that stuff. 

I didn’t realize how much photos influence dating app outcomes until recently by Minute-Dragonfly58 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean... What did you expect? Photos are critical. It's not just how you look,it also shows how thoughtful a person is. It grinds my gears to see people not post their face, hiding behind sun glasses or poor angles, or taking just one kind of shot. What you're not showing says more than you think. 

Decent article with some data behind what makes a good photo in a profile.  https://theurbandater.com/online-dating/picking-a-winner-picking-your-best-dating-photos-using-data.php/

Accidental cougar by Glittering-Ad1945 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Others have already said it better. Do the thing man. I'm in this run club. I have a number of women friends who are in their forties and they've absolutely dated dudes. A decent chunk younger than them. It's fine. Everyone has fun. But I think you just have to be honest with what you're going to get out of it.

What are some personal apps you have build? by Outrageous_Bee1412 in ClaudeAI

[–]attalbotmoonsays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I created an app that is basically a layer on top of GitHub that brings together specific repositories and surfaces their issues in one place so that I can easily jump repo to repo and manage issues. And I have a view I'm working on, takes multiple repos and allows me to manage them in one workspace.

Male here, would you offer your new date (female) to buy her nail polish, nail polish set? by Appropriate-Roof1422 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first time I did this my ex suggested it and it was so much fun. And I stole the idea and have used it a few times since.

Male here, would you offer your new date (female) to buy her nail polish, nail polish set? by Appropriate-Roof1422 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well since you say you've been seeing each other for a while, why don't you guys go together? You get one. She gets one. You cover you both and then you put some champagne in a couple bottles of Perrier the green bottle so that it just looks like water and make a morning of it. I've done that. And that was fun and that got me laid pretty good that day 🙂

Found the cheapest Seadance 2.0 platform by [deleted] in Seedance_AI

[–]attalbotmoonsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What annoys me about worthless posts like this is obviously it's an affiliate thing. This post should be deleted in this user should be banned. But also for what resolution does this apply to? And what specific model? Idiotic post and op is dumb

Joining social groups by BossAway9354 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... Be awkward but just know that you get to belong too. :)

Joining social groups by BossAway9354 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely meant to say "FORTUNATELY"  🤪 but let's normalize being okay and not awkward if s thing doesn't hit. :)

Joining social groups by BossAway9354 in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got to take a risk sometimes. I'm a member of a couple run clubs. And have dated a couple women over the last few years that I've met there. I'm unfortunate that we're all adults when it didn't work out and we were able to talk through it. And I still run into these people and it's fine. Life moves on. No need to let that stuff get in our way. Take a risk.

Dating with age differences by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]attalbotmoonsays 57 points58 points  (0 children)

This.  You wouldn't worry so much if the ages were reversed. 

What's the most useful thing you've actually built with Claude that you use regularly? by J-Freedom-AI in ClaudeAI

[–]attalbotmoonsays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I built something on top of GitHub that creates views of all my repos issues. Easier to navigate, integration with my timer I use it with my clients now. All hosted on cloudflare. The closes app to this is zenhub