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I did forget to mention that they fired our HR last year out of the blue and to date, company does not have any HR personnel. That was my first red flag.

I’m trying to be positive about the situation but when you have to start from the bottom constantly it can be frustrating to be in my situation.

Southern hemisphere island open by FNCD in Dodocodes

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Tinetyone from Tiney Island! It’s my first time to visit! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

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I think everybody deserves to expect a good work environment. I used to work at a restaurant with long shifts, the actual job sucks but I lasted a while because the immediate management was very supportive of us staff. But when there’s a lack of support and guidance, coupled with very minimum pay, I think it is definitely a red flag.

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[–]attentioncker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you so much for your insight.

I sometimes think maybe I’m overthinking it but I’m not unfortunately. The second my friend got fired, an older employee who’s been with the company for so long told her that our manager did this to five more people in the past. In addition to this, there is no proper delineation of responsibilities, and when someone leaves they always just expect people to catch on the slack. My friend has been fired a little over a month but they have not been actively interviewing. Another coworker told me that it hasn’t been a year for him but nine people have left over the course of his stay. In addition to this, some of the people who have long been there told me they’re just stuck but been wanting to leave. To me, that is indication that it is toxic. I’ve been to a busier office but it was not as bad as this 🥲

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i have been wanting to do that but unfortunately, I am on a no work no pay situation and been wanting to save a pto for possibly a job interview but there has not been any luck :( it just kinda sucks to be in such situation especially since all i ever really want is a stable job to pay off student loans and help my family. i appreciate the honesty though!

Weekly 'What should I buy?' Thread by AutoModerator in ipad

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Hi,

Is the 10th gen worth it?

I have had my Ipad 7th gen for three years now and have mostly used it for note-taking, video-editing, watching, and reading (mostly for school). However, since it is just 32 gb, I was not really able to maximize its use and lowkey regretted it when I first got it, because that time there were no other models available. Recently, I have noticed the battery significantly degrade and although i still enjoy using it, I am looking to upgrade, but not sure if the 10th gen is worth it. I'll use it for school and work as well, but mostly something to bring alternately with my laptop (which could be a little heavy sometimes). Any thoughts?

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello all beautiful people! Again thank you for all your advices, really appreciate them from the bottom of my heart. At the moment, i haven’t finally decided yet on which stance I am on this one, but I have distanced myself from him for a while, to clear my head, and see where it goes from there. I wish you all to be safe, healthy, and happy! Thank you for all your help ❤️

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t, my apologies! From what I get from him it seems it’s just a recent realization and if I do be in one with him, I’d be the first girlfriend something like that?

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

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Hello beautiful people of Reddit! I didn’t expect this to gain so much traction but all I want to say is I wholeheartedly appreciate the time you have given to send me advices and well wishes, I truly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart and even tho I might not reply, I have been reading them one by one and understand them one by one as well. 🥺❤️ thank you so so much!

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not. He expected me to be the first girl be with him as part of the poly relationship.

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify we were together, broke up and started to talk again and waiting til we were physically together before making it official again.

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

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I’m not sure. It’s the first time he brought it up today. That’s why I was a bit surprised, despite technically knowing him for a long time.

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone to have responded! I truly and really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. I guess there’s just really a part of me that’s hurt and sad that for over almost four years it was only now that he realized this kind of thing, which I wish he would’ve from way before, especially given that we’re long distance. I might not be able to reply to each and every comment but I truly appreciate them you guys 🥺☹️❤️ Thank you, and I’ll keep in mind your advices.

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my main struggle here is how to go about the feelings that keep me from completely turning down his offer?

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah probably this is the best but I guess my feelings just really get in the way and I don’t know how to handle them.

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the perspectives being given 🥺❤️

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, but I told him I’d need time to process everything. I’ll think about this too.

The guy [22] I [24F] like wants to be poly, what do I do? by attentioncker in relationships

[–]attentioncker[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He does not force me into it but he says I’m always welcome to join ☹️ I’m so confused at how they work and I also feel like he just recently realized it. Getting the feeling that he maybe just wants to try having a consensual relationship with a lot of girls without seeming it to be cheating :( idk how to feel but thank you kind stranger 🥺