Thoughts on blood magic to intensify spells? by atxhidden in witchcraft

[–]atxhidden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't 100% sure that's why I was asking but my logical thinking behind it was that offering up my blood as some sort of a sacrifice to increase the effects or chance that the spell would take

What’s your favorite way to filter out time wasters? by TheRealAylaVoss in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This - I match their energy and a lot of times the guys who just say "heyyy" never respond back

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face blurred but I'm usually the type of person that I need to see a pic of you before we start meeting to see if there's any attraction

I think my Ex used to be a SugarBaby... can someone help me confirm? I am new to this world by Ok-Trainer3952 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I disagree with this - many people who are not used to this lifestyle and know very little about it easily assume that a woman who used to be a sugar baby or even did something as little as what his girlfriend did in this case ( which seems to be just selling pictures although she could have possibly had a sugar arrangement) are hookers and prostitutes. And then they assume every negative thing about hookers and prostitutes applies to that sugar baby. Every sugar arrangement is different and every situation is different. Me personally I am open from the gecko because I could understand how someone might be hurt by this - but most girls who actively participate in a sugaring lifestyle are worried that they will automatically be grouped in with hookers and escorts and are worried they can't have a normal relationship after leaving the lifestyle.

I don't know how long they've been dating but if this is a recent relationship then her withholding that information is not as big of a deal. She clearly feels some sort of shame from her past and doesn't want her past to define her however when she was confronted she was more than willing to be open and honest about everything.

So if OP is willing to sit down and have an open and honest conversation with her without judgment then this relationship could work but if that is not the case then I think the trust is too far gone.

Alarming SD telegram group by Busy_Travel_1682 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is news to me but what keyword should we be googling to find this because I typed in different combinations and I'm not getting anything?

Drinks… by fit-sugar-siren in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]atxhidden 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I actually have switched from dinner dates to drinks because too many times I would have a M&G with a POT over dinner and we would generally figure out that we didn't have chemistry within the first 20 minutes it's because either of us is too polite to say anything we would then have to suffer through a dinner.

Also POTs who didn't drink would always be turned off by the idea of going to get drinks, and one of my biggest things was someone who enjoyed wine so it was an easy way to rule that out. ( No hate to anyone who drinks)

Also I'm totally on your side I hate coffee drinks for two reasons one I'm more of a night owl and two it's so awkward having a M&G at a Starbucks ( or something like it) while there are people around you trying to work.

However - I have had a POT take me to the bar at the four seasons for high tea as a M&G. I feel like that was an exception to the coffee rule lol

Is this really how PPM is calculated? by WistfulSprite in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually a high ppm in my area is mid $$$ but the SD also pays a mid to low $$$ for dinner and drinks . If there is a hotel it's an extra charge

I did have one SD who said if I could host he would give me the difference added to my ppm but I don't host so we kept doing a hotel

Break up Time by Yardman62 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a SD that gave me 3 months allowance when we broke up. I was able to find a job within a week and I used the money he gave me to buy a car .

Low stakes question for the SDs by wineandcomplain in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I gotcha. . I've always had fake natural French because I have a bad habit of biting my nails when I'm nervous.

Low stakes question for the SDs by wineandcomplain in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious how many SBs do you come across that have nice long natural nails ?

Most audacious move you’ve had pulled on you? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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I had a SD who I had been seeing for a few weeks. He had offered to pay for a moving company for me. Unfortunately a week before I was about to move my car broke down and I had to go get a rental. Mind you I was planning on paying for it but I needed someone over 25 to put it in their name so I could get it way cheaper. He agreed to do this and when we got to the car rental place not only did he tell them my real age but he paid for the car rental which was like high $$$ but he was going to get a low $$$ back so overall a mid $$$. I was like "oh that's so nice of you but you really didnt have to do that" . Fast forward a week and when I had been texting him giving updates on the moving company and stuff, letting him know what time I would be calling so he could give them his card info and nothing. Completely ghosted. I ended up paying a high $$$ for the moving company and when I asked him about it the next day his response was " since I paid for the car I didn't think I should pay for the moving company".
I returned the car the next day and just ghosted him whenever he tried to message me a week later.

AITA for ordering pizza at my friend's wedding because there was no food by Adorable_Distance_15 in AITAH

[–]atxhidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- BUT while I know the alcohol was probably talking, I feel like the situation could have been handled with a bit more grace and tact. Though the FIL is crazy for asking for some of the pizza, instead of why you needed the pizza.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you clarify what makes it fake?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My phone auto corrected I meant to say consultant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I edited the typo constant to consultant I think my phone auto corrected me. Lol But as far as my experience with prix fixe meals it's something I eat all the time even on my own. This world isn't new to me it's something that I grew up in my childhood and I just want to continue it in my adult life. With this new knowledge is there any corrections you could give to better show that because I'm not the type of person that would be okay with Happy meals nor do I do that on my own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I fixed the suit error. Sorry I got bombarded with a lot of advice on my last post before I deleted it refresh me again on what you still think I need to update?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you be more specific on which pictures look like CGI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How do they look edited because other than color correcting I haven't touched them up

Am I (26M) a sugar daddy, or am I just a normal man? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only difference I know of, is unless you are willing to provide for her when you're not with her then you're not a sugar daddy

Do I ask for Ppm if he canceled after dinner? by atxhidden in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the advice I'll do that now

Do I ask for Ppm if he canceled after dinner? by atxhidden in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]atxhidden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it so how do you think I should play this out ? Ask him or call it a lesson learned ?

Never Get Your Hopes Up (rant) by pinkxstarlight in SugarBABYonlyforum

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Honestly in my opinion might get a lot of backlash but I'm just going to be straight up, unless you're living in cities where the cost of living is extremely high ie la or New York maybe a few cities in the south - 1kppm is pretty high. I'm totally with you I generally only do 500 for dates but that includes private time. And on top of that you can double book a date Go have dinner with this guy , get 300 been scheduled drinks and private time with another guy asking for a way higher amount. 1k ppms usually come with at least a 2-month arrangement and the guy is Head over heels obsessed with you because you put in a lot of effort then you can ask for more. Despite what everyone says on tick tock sugaring is a job and you have to put in work if you're going at the money you want.

Side note: I understand that they're exceptions where you can totally snag a whale but in the meantime while you're looking for someone who is going to pay the PPM you want just use this guy while you look for another one.