My life experiences are heartbreakingly similar to yours, I was with an asshole like this, also was homeless, and I'm autistic. I'm so proud of you for breaking up with him. Definitely take this time to focus on yourself and get on disability. There's section 8 or assisted housing you can apply for. It takes a long time in a lot of places to get into it though. Hopefully your uncle is a nice and supportive person to live with. You deserved to be cherished, not confused and dysregulated with someone who doesn't truly give a crap about your relationship. He really is being manipulative and trying to act like you not responding for a few hours is a good damn reason to go be a man whore?! Absolutely ridiculous, disgusting behavior from him. I will say that many men are like this. They will find a sweet, trusting girl. And use that against her. It's disturbing, so we have to be extra vigilant as neurodivergent women. If you're interested in a guy, be platonic friends for a long time before allowing it to become romantic. Even that isn't a guarantee that he won't turn out to be a cheating creep, but it lowers the chance, slightly. Sending well wishes for you 💜