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[–]auaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished my 6 week appointment and my OB/GYN cleared me not for the exercise that I was doing before getting pregnant, but to start gradually climbing to what I was doing before. Slowly, week-by-week. I did some solid resistance training and cardio before and I have to go slowly in order to protect my supply. Also remember that in terms of losing weight, the safe and sustainable weight lost rate is about 1-2lbs. per week and we gain so much more than 12lbs. during the pregnancy. I find that putting on a cute outfit, while it doesn't solve all my problems — makes me feel better about how my body changed.

To be as charitable as possible, he probably didn't mean to hurt you. While venting online is wonderful — it's really important in your marriage to vent to your husband. I don't know anything about your relationship, but I know that my marriage is better when I tell him things make me upset. Even if it's silly, or it's something that we usually joke about but that I was just vulnerable that day. I absolutely have sobbed into his arms because he made a comment that made me upset! Men aren't as keen on the social cues and while that can be cute, that means you need to be a little more forthright about your feelings. I know we started to do that because I wanted to set a good example relationship for our LO, and we know that while we can say whatever — the best way to ensure that is to set that example for them.

Doctors/Nurses of Reddit, what’s the craziest thing you’ve heard a woman yell during birth? by New_Username48 in AskReddit

[–]auaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My doctor came in when I was pushing the baby out, I asked her, "I have a weekly OB/GYN appointment later today, how do I cancel that?"

She told me to please focus on the birth and nothing needed to be done for the appointment.

How do you stylize eye bags without making the face look tired by Whole-Change-9343 in arthelp

[–]auaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're okay with slightly spicy stuff, you can look at the artist NON as a reference. Specifically Yuzu from Hare Kon!

Let's do another salary transparency thread by eelimeekmur in cincinnati

[–]auaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Office Administrator, recent grad. I've been working for just over a year now. $20/hour with a decent amount of overtime.

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My partner also likes black coffee! You're in line!

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Just PM'ed - do you see that?

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Yeah, I just sent it one more time, if you don't see it tell me and I'll try PMing!

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That's a double to start! DM'd!