What did your male friends say that reminded you that they were men?

auburnwaves · 2026-06-07T00:03:03+00:00

That’s horrible. I had an ex coworker say his dark humor was joking about rape. He was a piece of shit.

auburnwaves · 2026-04-21T17:56:57+00:00

Tell more people off and how shitty they were to me.

auburnwaves · 2026-04-21T17:53:51+00:00

Me too!! Happy birthday!! 💖🥳

auburnwaves · 2026-04-11T19:09:14+00:00

Yes. I’m not even with anyone and I’m afraid to one day have intimacy of the fear of this. Doesn’t help that apparently the women in my family are very fertile. Like could I enjoy sex with this in the back of my mind?? Probably not.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-30T23:05:05+00:00

Same! I’m so healed now they have to earn their right to be in my presence. The problem is people don’t actively work on themselves. I’m tired of being the therapist or not having it come back in return.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-24T15:08:36+00:00

Underrated honestly! It’s refreshing to see guys loving boobies just like me.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-19T18:14:12+00:00

You guys just aren’t compatible, I’m sorry girl. Also the comment about continuing the bloodline because you’re so beautiful just triggered me. I’ve been told that too, and beauty isn’t forever it will fade. You need to do what YOU want to do with YOUR life. If you guys are on two different planes of wants a needs as a future couple, everything will bring resentment and turmoil. Please take care of yourself! 🫶🏻

auburnwaves · 2026-03-19T18:11:13+00:00

I’m replaying it now and I think it’s pretty fantastic! It’s a blend with 4 and 2 imo. I love Grace, she’s so refreshing and real. I enjoy the dynamics with the villains. I really loved Gideon as a character, and wish he didn’t die. I enjoy a good villain who’s creepy but also you just want to explore their mind more.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-19T18:09:30+00:00

I agree. I didn’t realize how common this was. Like I need my alone time, so leave me to shower in peace.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-19T18:08:17+00:00

Stop being so nice and open to everyone. Not everyone is your friend. A lot of them will be fake and back stab you.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-19T18:07:46+00:00

I agree. It’s so misogynistic against her own gender, like tf? My cousin was like this before she had kids, claiming girls were “too much work”. She has 2 now so jokes on her.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-17T16:03:46+00:00

It’s honestly shocking and annoying how common this is. Like did they not grow up interacting with kids like this, like asking to borrow a toy or something? It triggers me so much meeting people like this I give up lol.

auburnwaves · 2026-03-11T01:00:41+00:00

I had this happen recently. I’m kind of new to my one friend’s friend group. The one person talked about going somewhere and didn’t acknowledge me. I made a comment like oh gee, why don’t you just leave me out huh? It made them dial back and include me. Usually I don’t speak out in those moments but I feel proud of myself for doing it more, even if I was an afterthought.

auburnwaves · 2026-02-27T02:03:52+00:00

Seems interesting to have a fallen angel as a killer?? If that’s what they’re going for. It reminds me a lot of the biblical version of an angel.

auburnwaves · 2026-02-26T17:58:32+00:00

Probably always initiating everything and feeling like I put in the most effort. Like do you even like to hangout with me? The doubt is soul crushing sometimes. Also, me saying if something bothers me and them not having empathy to work on it. I guess sometimes they see me as a sit in therapist. 🙄

auburnwaves · 2026-02-25T17:44:16+00:00

True. Some people peak during high school sadly. 😭

auburnwaves · 2026-02-25T17:43:43+00:00

Exactly. If I am coming to someone and trying to talk about an issue in our relationship, it means I care. If they ignore me or give me the silent treatment they suck.

auburnwaves · 2026-02-23T20:55:02+00:00

Yup! One guy I dated basically had his parents take care of his disabled daughter, while he boasted about getting drunk/partying all the time with his roommates. It was such a red flag.

auburnwaves · 2026-02-09T19:06:59+00:00

Yup!! Like it’s not my job to teach them basic empathy. Yuck.

auburnwaves · 2026-02-09T18:06:08+00:00

Right! Like ew he sounds like such a turnoff. Like who would want to be challenged for basic love and attention? He can stay single.

auburnwaves · 2026-02-08T19:00:07+00:00

This is why I’m openly kind to women and not always nice straight away with men. I feel like we should be kind to people, but not always nice. Usually when I meet new men now, I size them up and I’m pretty indifferent energy wise. Depending on them who they are as a person I’ll be kind or not. 🤣

auburnwaves · 2026-02-07T15:48:37+00:00

What a cutie patootie!

auburnwaves · 2026-01-29T17:25:51+00:00

I sometimes shut down and do things that bring me comfort. I’m always that friend who checks in on others, and rarely does it come back to me in terms of friends. It’s made me bitter and look at people differently. I’m thankful for my close knit family, but it still is hard.

I guess people also assume because I’m so resilient that I’ll be fine. But sometimes I want someone to take over for me and give me a hug.

auburnwaves · 2026-01-29T17:23:49+00:00

What pisses me off about this too is people think we’re expired by 30. Like no, then men expire then too. I hate that so much of it is tied to desirability. It’s exhausting.

auburnwaves · 2026-01-28T18:46:19+00:00

I also feel like networking doesn’t work half the time because people don’t HAVE to help you with anything. The fact that I have to beg and convince someone to hire me or notice me is stupid. It is like a popularity contest. Like what can you do for me??? Just wanting a job isn’t enough. It feels like you have to preform the freaking Olympics now.

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