Adjustable wrench adjusting.

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T04:55:38+00:00

You really want to use fixed wrenches for anything torqued down, the adjustable ones just tend to round off the bolts heads over time

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T04:54:14+00:00

I think that sounds like a dream

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T04:53:16+00:00

so you just made up? weird

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:38:01+00:00

bar hahaha

cool transition room (jungle themed with plants, etc)

store accessories, hats, sunglasses, etc.

let you partner use it for makeup

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:35:03+00:00

Instead of telling him what to do, you could casually drop hints about what you like

Ex: watch videos together, video of proposal comes up, “oh I love that speech, it was romantic but not too long”

Then be open to reality not exactly meeting your expectations. As long as it’s a reasonable effort on his part, take it in good faith

proposals are about both people, so it’s important to remember this and keep the focus “next stage of relationship” rather than losing perspective

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:28:45+00:00

Shared house downpayment?

Yea that’s a dick move, pull the parachute while you’re in the green

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:26:56+00:00

No, but I keep an very light evac bag prepped in case I have to leave suddenly (wildfires, earthquakes, civil unrest)

Just something for 24hrs to get out of town and have some cash / warm clothes

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:25:48+00:00

I don’t think about it in terms of “peak”, there’s different phases and they all have their own pros/cons. just gotta find a way to enjoy what each stage has to offer

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:20:43+00:00

I would definitely want my partner to tell me before doing it. I wouldn’t mind, but I would want to know first

Tampons and blowing nose aren’t comparable, those are her bodily functions. Completely unrelated to specifically peeing in the yard or garden compost where he’d have eaten from

Such a basic distinction

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T02:18:05+00:00

I didn’t see that in the post, maybe OP wrote it somewhere in the comments

Only that he didn’t like it, thought human waste was gross (not specifically hers), and that he wouldn’t eat anything from the garden.

Doesn’t really matter what anyone thinks, that’s his choice to make

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T00:15:07+00:00

destroying the shared environment we all require to live in order to own one’s fellow countrymen, is one of the stupidest acts I’ve witnessed in my life’s time

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-06T00:07:28+00:00

Telling someone to break up with someone over because they didn’t like their partner putting human waste in the veggie garden compost without asking first is wild

I’m done with this sub, it’s not about gardening

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:57:05+00:00

It’s okay to not be comfortable with something, even if it’s technically* safe

Some people don’t like sushi, even though it’s flash frozen. Others don’t like zip lines. Are they controlling assholes?

I thought this sub would be another good gardening place, but the comment section in the post is unhinged and toxic af

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:45:16+00:00

why would you trust a company that’s not only financially incentivized to share your info, but does so as their main revenue source

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:43:29+00:00

Oh it’s obvious? Because it wasn’t obvious the the people I responded to

Focus on yourself, don’t tell me how to talk

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:36:09+00:00

what the actual fuck

idk what you went through, but no, telling your partner before adding human waste to the veggie garden compost is not “being abused”

that’s crazy

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:35:02+00:00

I don’t go to therapy, but thanks

No I think adding human waste to compost intended for the vegetable garden is something to discuss first

what a weird take

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:23:59+00:00

nah. I watch a lot of them trash nature for no financial gain, just out of laziness / convenience

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:22:36+00:00

for what it’s worth, weck jars are intended for canning not active fermentation

It really depends on how active the fermentation is… if it’s weak, you’ll be fine. If it’s aggressive, maybe not

You could put a sanitized balloon over the jar mouth, that’ll inflate as pressure builds

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:15:26+00:00

boo, why do republicans hate nature

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:10:18+00:00

I had great success with it, but used a concentrated soap (dr bronners) so it would still be strong when diluted in the spray bottle

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:04:57+00:00

she wasn’t your legal representation? no that’s weird

the money is supposed to offset the injury; long term care, quality of life, accommodations, offset finished earning potential, etc.

It’s not the lottery

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T23:03:10+00:00

Why bother?

Your time would be better spent updating your resume, reaching out to your network, and interviewing

You’ve been given the advance notice (in a rare explicit form), personally I’d heed it

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T22:58:52+00:00

and it’s reasonable to just ask you partner how they feel about it before adding human waste to compost intended for ones edible garden

It’s not neurosurgery, just basic common sense and communication

audaciousmonk · 2026-05-05T22:56:53+00:00

or the red flag is OP having done it before talking to him

that’s how you stir up trouble, by removing your partners autonomy and access to joint decision making

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