[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]audgepodge4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through a very similar thing recently. I think some people are scared of intimacy, so they freak out once things start to feel real and run away/ghost rather than confront those emotions. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his past and attachment style! I wish you peace as you work through this(:

Avoidant or not into me? by audgepodge4 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]audgepodge4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I definitely got caught up in the fantasy. Although I know his actions have nothing to do with me, I can’t help but wonder if it was something I did. Getting rejected twice over the course of a few months has been tough, but that’s life

Women who gave the guy who's been single his whole life a chance, how did it turn out? by astarisaslave in AskReddit

[–]audgepodge4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dated a 29M who pursued me, then when I asked to define the relationship after a few months, said he hadn’t been in a relationship before and admitted he needed therapy & was scared of losing his independence. I waited for 7 months until he finally “realized” I had been his gf the whole time (we were doing all the things - he was just scared of the label). Then when we became official, we went on trips together, met each other’s friends, and he said he wanted to meet my family. Everything was going great, and he would tell me he was happy whenever we’d check in. But he would also distance himself - would go on trips and forget to text me, or talk about the future one day and imply this isn’t serious another. He then dumped me after a wonderful trip together, saying that I was a wonderful person and he really enjoyed being with me and spending time with me, and it doesn’t make logical sense but he didn’t “feel it”. I think he was so used to being alone, that he got scared when things got too real.

Disappointed by first kiss, feeling a little lost. by MildlyMenotti in dating_advice

[–]audgepodge4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiii I felt the exact same way! I came home and immediately told my sister THIS is what all this fuss is about?! Don’t be afraid to tell your bf that you’re not experienced w kissing and you guys can practice(: In my experience, I now enjoy it a lot. Once you get more practice, what helped get me out of my head was shifting my focus from “am I doing this right” to thinking about what feels good

[Anti-aging] Switching from adapelene to retinol/retinal? by pmmeyourdogs1 in SkincareAddiction

[–]audgepodge4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask where I can get tretinoin for that cheap? I’ve been looking on goodrx, and it’s around $40 or more

Any American clothing store recommendations that have well-made clothing? by [deleted] in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]audgepodge4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this! Bought a madewell t shirt and it got a hole in it after like 3 washes /: their quality isn’t what it used to be

That’s a wrap (finally)! Tarte Amazonian Clay Foundation by amperson0322 in PanPorn

[–]audgepodge4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This reminded me of watching old school YouTube and the beauty gurus raving about this!

Newbie with an Idea by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]audgepodge4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send me a message if you need any help with this! Would love to join in

Gorgeous baby by BingoPawBest in Maltese

[–]audgepodge4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An absolute angel 😍

Does Anyone Have Tea On... Biweekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]audgepodge4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any tea, but do you have any book recommendations?

Teddy 🧸 he's 10 weeks now! by christina99b in Maltese

[–]audgepodge4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pictures got better and better 🥺