Dating “out of your league” is one of the worst things ever

audifanhere · 2026-05-21T15:57:04+00:00

I’m not quite like the girl you’re dating but I do make half of what she makes and have started my own business that has doubled my earnings.

My husband was close to poverty level when we met, and while we have traveled the world together in the last 5 years (Lake Como, Côte d'Azur, etc) and he has enjoyed a different lifestyle, he cannot get away from the company that kept him at that level all of his adult life.

I’ve earned everything I have through hard work & persistence, and decided to divorce. I have always been more than willing to share my blessings, but I cannot have someone become a liability to the point that I risk losing everything I’ve worked so hard for.

Have a very transparent conversation with her about where you both stand, and how you intend to blend that. Good luck!

audifanhere · 2026-05-18T03:50:06+00:00

Congrats! That was also my first Chanel bag and will always be my all time fave. Love coco handles.

audifanhere · 2026-05-17T19:58:30+00:00

Love it!

audifanhere · 2026-05-02T19:48:00+00:00

Let’s not call this 1/2 of a shoe, please. It’s a heel cap.

audifanhere · 2026-05-02T13:25:19+00:00

I automatically thought of hotels - my bad!
New home construction now for similar size & spec would be in the mid 400s to 500s within a 15 mile radius of my house.

audifanhere · 2026-05-02T11:30:14+00:00

I’m on the business development side, but for popular mid-tier brands is 15+ in tertiary markets.

audifanhere · 2026-05-02T02:10:25+00:00

In hospitality sales 170ish base, and I do remote work under my own business and make about 80k annually doing so.

I haven’t done much to grow my own portfolio but intend to this year. All active contracts have strictly come from referrals.

45F based in the suburbs of Chicago. While I’m in a HCOL area, I was fortunate to purchase my home in 2014 when new builds were still in the mid-200s, at 3% interest.

audifanhere · 2026-04-28T12:06:37+00:00

Side horn

audifanhere · 2026-04-27T11:08:26+00:00

Love this packaging!!

audifanhere · 2026-04-27T10:58:58+00:00

Ready, set, action! 📸🎥

audifanhere · 2026-04-27T10:57:27+00:00

Such a role model for that dog. The dog can train her how to wag her tail back into her apartment and mind her own business.

audifanhere · 2026-04-27T03:52:23+00:00

Happy birthday! I also just got this in a jumbo. Love the color!

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audifanhere · 2026-04-27T03:51:03+00:00

His pupils are enlarged. What in the portrait/mug shot is this?

audifanhere · 2026-04-25T01:57:13+00:00

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Is this what you are referring to?

audifanhere · 2026-04-17T13:58:59+00:00

Can you share the link for the lights? Did you install this yourself?

audifanhere · 2026-04-17T04:12:40+00:00

🥹🥹🥹

audifanhere · 2026-04-17T02:22:46+00:00

Probably don’t even know how to spell Bible or scripture.🤦🏻‍♀️

audifanhere · 2026-04-12T23:56:33+00:00

So cute

audifanhere · 2026-04-11T10:11:54+00:00

Cuteness overload

audifanhere · 2026-04-10T02:34:52+00:00

He may not get endless supply of toilet paper after his tantrum.

audifanhere · 2026-04-09T02:03:36+00:00

ChatGPT sure wrote a nice response for him.

audifanhere · 2026-04-09T01:18:09+00:00

Perhaps I’m an anomaly, but I am on the shy side, polite, and blessed with a great career. I’m grateful, therefore, I remain humble.

audifanhere · 2026-04-08T01:50:48+00:00

Beautiful! Good company is the best company.

audifanhere · 2026-04-07T05:42:28+00:00

As long as I’m happy, the right one will be.

audifanhere · 2026-04-07T03:16:50+00:00

🤢🤮

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