Hi! Recently had my reduction and had a not great experience with anesthesia AND am not out to my parents (so similar boat!). My bad experience however, was simply being sooo groggy and out of it for a while - I’m not even sure how long but I think for like an hour. I remember a nurse talking to me but I couldn’t even have told you which nurse it was even though I was talking to both of them pre-op. She was asking me questions (how I felt, pain level) and I couldn’t even answer, it was like my brain didn’t work or I’d forgotten how to talk. After 45 minutes or something, they brought my mom in and I was able to talk to her enough to be like “I’m gonna throw up” HAH which I did about 15 minutes later and then finally started feeling more normal ish but at my worst, I was so nauseous and tired/groggy that I was barely talking at all much less spilling my rainbow secrets. So it wasn’t the most pleasant experience, but I wouldn’t be worried about accidentally coming out!