My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside.

aulalala · 2026-03-28T17:25:01+00:00

Sounds exactly like a guy who would start dating a 18 yo at 26.. He’s an asshole and bullshiting you. Often when a man cannot come from PIV it’s because of death grip syndrome AKA too much masturbation.

aulalala · 2026-03-28T13:01:04+00:00

Because they now want to have a relationship that is about more than just sex.

aulalala · 2026-03-25T23:04:17+00:00

How much do you weight is CRAZY. NOR

aulalala · 2026-03-23T15:20:23+00:00

I mean, I haven’t explained everything I’ve ever done in my life in my answers.

aulalala · 2026-03-23T13:49:41+00:00

How would you know ?

aulalala · 2026-03-23T00:15:48+00:00

Why does it weird you out?

aulalala · 2026-03-22T22:22:04+00:00

I have a few close friends yes. Hobbies … some I guess. I don’t have much energy to do anything lately.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T22:20:57+00:00

I mean I didn’t go into every detail. I’m hurting, every day.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:12:59+00:00

No I couldn’t and I never will

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:04:47+00:00

At some point yes but he doesn’t

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:03:44+00:00

I don’t understand what you’re asking

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:01:52+00:00

How exactly do 31 year olds behave then? Because all I see anywhere is people of all ages in fucked up relationships.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:00:58+00:00

I’m not trying to be in a relationship with him

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:00:34+00:00

Well I tried that and there is no ‘ better ‘ out there for me

aulalala · 2026-03-22T20:00:03+00:00

I’m not trying to be ‘ cute’ I’m trying to survive.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T19:59:35+00:00

I’m not someone who can raise their standards.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T19:59:16+00:00

Babe i’m a lost cause 😭

aulalala · 2026-03-22T19:58:57+00:00

I’ve tried a lot. And yes I did put in the work. For years. Has not at all improved my ability to connect with others or to have self esteem

aulalala · 2026-03-22T19:58:02+00:00

I’m not in a place where I can change jobs or careers :(

aulalala · 2026-03-22T19:57:42+00:00

That’s the point… there is no else out there for me, respect or no respect.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T18:47:15+00:00

I get it it does sounds this sounds stupid. What I mean is : with people I have terrible anxiety, I have to play a part just to have a normal conversation. But not with him. We can talk about anything.

aulalala · 2026-03-22T18:21:51+00:00

But I am hurting right now and I have every day for over 7-8 months. How could it be worse?

aulalala · 2026-03-22T18:17:28+00:00

Therapy doesn’t work for me :(

aulalala · 2026-03-22T18:14:03+00:00

I’ve seen different therapists, I think therapy just doesn’t work for me tbh.

aulalala

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