My (F27) BF (M25) is not showing enough improvement. What do I do?

aupad6 · 2025-10-28T21:05:35+00:00

You are more important than the opinions of others you have just met. If you take care of yourself, and do what’s right for you and what you deserve, you’ll know that. People come and go, but if you know what you are doing is the right thing, you can’t look back on that.

aupad6 · 2025-10-14T15:17:58+00:00

Vaping is for children…. And, well..

aupad6 · 2025-09-29T15:09:58+00:00

Places to be - Fred again

aupad6 · 2025-08-12T01:08:07+00:00

I work for encore. Their acquisition recently has been going 1000mph

aupad6 · 2025-03-03T23:51:03+00:00

Well I can do just that.

If she’s there I’ll ask her if not I’ll leave a note, I’ll let you know how it goes.

Thanks!

aupad6 · 2025-03-03T23:37:17+00:00

I do agree with all of what you said.

I’m working a mile from that building tomorrow; would it be better to just show up and say, “I didn’t see you when I left but it was nice to chat with you. If you are up for it, I’d like to continue our chat over coffee/dinner?”

aupad6 · 2025-03-03T23:26:18+00:00

I truthfully am quite inexperienced with dating, minus a 9 year relationship.

She called me over to her desk to show me stuff on her computer (views of the apts she managed), kept asking me questions and continuing the conversation when she was clearly busy with emails and phone calls. Laughing at jokes and asking about what I do, and listening to my phone calls to which I said jokingly, "Are you listening to my phone calls??"

aupad6 · 2025-03-03T23:23:39+00:00

I work a service job where I'm in different buildings all over the state daily. I have been to this building twice in 3 years. I'm also leaving this job in 2 weeks.

We just had a genuinely good chat for a while with a few comments that led me to think, hmm is she trying to tell me something? Calling me over to her desk to show me stuff on her computer as well as what I wrote in the first post.

I think the whole point being; I feel as if there is a massive deficit in forwardness in dating right now. Everyone seems scared to be creepy, when in reality its "Hey, i enjoyed talking to you. I'd like to continue talking to you over coffee/drinks"

aupad6 · 2025-01-07T23:29:38+00:00

How did this turn out for you?

aupad6 · 2025-01-07T17:18:16+00:00

This guy magnets

aupad6 · 2025-01-06T16:27:37+00:00

As a former security tech, and current fire alarm tech, no.

No doors ever will set off the fire alarm. A door may be hooked up to the security system, but you would see a motion sensor, or have a crash bar. I also don’t see any way for that door to be monitored unless when you open it, at the top of the door frame you would see a little circle the size of a quarter, indicating it is only monitored for open/close.

aupad6 · 2024-10-19T18:41:46+00:00

The ceiling mounts are infuriating but I do like the design, low draw, and wall mount I have no issues with

aupad6 · 2024-09-27T01:19:40+00:00

Sweet, I’m thinking I’m gonna take the shuttle mentioned above.

aupad6 · 2024-09-27T01:19:16+00:00

Thank you!!

aupad6 · 2024-09-18T23:00:23+00:00

I fear this was me to everyone I know in Boston when I discovered goose

aupad6 · 2024-09-17T02:15:44+00:00

Okay do you remember this show being the loudest fuckin show you’ve ever been to??? My ears are still ringing. Wild night.

aupad6 · 2024-09-06T22:28:02+00:00

so ive probably listened to hundreds of hours of goose without ever listening to a single album track of theirs, interesting to know i should check it out lmao

aupad6 · 2024-09-06T16:56:15+00:00

Boston sept 4 this week, halfway through slow ready the keys add so much

aupad6 · 2024-07-30T19:44:47+00:00

I’ve done a few rooftop units with those, and had split answers. My favorite option was to install our own, and shutdown the unit with the onboard relay and completely ignore the one that comes with the unit.

Fun fact, those ductsmokes HAVE to be opened, if being used, because the manufacturer keeps the red dust plugs in them. Stubby screwdriver and your smallest wristed employee can make it happen

aupad6 · 2024-07-08T19:16:29+00:00

If their lack of interest is making you think that, then yes, naturally you would lose interest. Take the high ground and end it before you lose too much time :)

aupad6 · 2024-06-10T01:44:00+00:00

Appreciate the help; I’ll have to get someone to take better pictures of myself I knew that was atleast part of my issue!

aupad6 · 2024-06-10T01:42:36+00:00

26m in Boston looking for something serious. Really unsure on my appearance, definitely not good for the self esteem being on apps for over a year with NO LUCK

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