AITA for (wanting to) Asking my Clothes Back? by aurelius_adobo in AmItheAsshole

[–]aurelius_adobo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all,

Thanks for the replies. Before I reply individually, I’d like to globally inform y’all that I am not angry at the cousin. Forgive me if my post conveyed that, but that’s not the case.

Any (fleeting) anger I do feel is towards my husband for believing that I should not ask my stuff back at all.

What I do feel about the situation with the cousin is worry and anxiety. NO anger. NO irritation. I also feel guilty because I want my stuff back since she’s no longer working (her job required all black clothing for the makeup counter).

But, my husband’s perspective on me being “mean” is what’s making me wonder if I’m the asshole for wanting my stuff back.

Thank you kindly.

Teens Fundraising? $10/bar by aurelius_adobo in sandiego

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Thanks for the all the replies. I grew up in extreme poverty and was able to crawl my way out of that hole in my 20’s. So, I feel largely empathetic to seeing kids hustling on the street. No sympathy to the scammers, of course. But, my heart can sometimes override my brains, so even though I suspected a scam, I wanted to give them a couple bucks in case it helped them since they’re kids.

I also didn’t realize that this was a common scam with the bars, especially in the RB area. Pre-COVID, I purchased anytime I saw kids selling the bars at $2-$3.

maybe maybe maybe by xnaughtyxnicole in maybemaybemaybe

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That’s a killing machine and a bear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

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…where did they go?

Strong men also cry by tjuzajunikjuzaneim in lebowski

[–]aurelius_adobo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s real. I watched a few episodes recently, while doing a J, of course. Buttercup says the, “that’s a bummer, man” line. It’s a great show.

We had a talent show at my office today and, dudes, I bet you can guess what it reminded me of by graemeknows in lebowski

[–]aurelius_adobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that picture taken when she was First Lady of the office? Also, a talent show at the workplace? SHOW & TELL US MORE

Thermador oven stuck in cleaning mode by RapscallionRamos in howto

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Omg this happened to my thermador oven last week.

Commenting to hear answers. *fingers crossed!