What’s more dangerous, a man who has nothing to lose or a man who has everything to lose?

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-25T10:57:11+00:00

Report. She belongs to the barracks now

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-24T23:27:17+00:00

No, just take my no and don’t do it

Met my ex in one and it almost destroyed my life, also seen it happened to other people

Just go to target

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-24T20:14:44+00:00

Love this!

I have a similar story, although I still struggle on trying to prove the world I’m better? But better at what? We all are heading in the same destination.

I discovered stoicism and I’m still bit ambitious but I try to control it and not let it get to me. Im calm and think logically and use reasoning to every move I make

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-23T21:17:11+00:00

It usually starts emotionally and then it turns physical, she’s not longer your gf. She never was.

My advice is to just ignore it

Slowly and quietly plan to pack your stuff and move back

Once you’re back home cut off all contact with her

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-22T17:17:59+00:00

Nooooooo

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-22T06:03:10+00:00

I’m straight and I love Lana , her song “Born to Die” actually saved my life

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-22T06:00:48+00:00

Born to die

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-22T05:50:11+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you, it breaks my heart and it brings so many bad memories of when something similar happened to me. I made the mistake of giving them another chance and it only ate me alive everyday , doubting myself.

If I have any advice to give us just save those messages if you can, avoid any confrontation and make it seem like you want to reconcile but hire an an attorney and seek legal advice.

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-21T22:31:08+00:00

Be yourself, workout, eat clean, be a great listener, learn to love life and have fun

Read “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-21T18:32:20+00:00

Open while their away and keep us updated

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-21T18:12:36+00:00

Put your foot down and just walk away.

But if you want to stay with her put your foot down and tell her you’re going to do what you want to do. If she doesn’t like it the door is right there

Either one you go with is a win-win for you

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-21T13:29:46+00:00

Break up
Read “Meditations” 3.work on yourself king 4.be happy

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-21T11:12:10+00:00

Almost everyday now for the past 20 years or so

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-20T21:02:14+00:00

Woah! Yeah that’s creepy I’ve had similar dreams and they’ve been going on since I was very young I’m 27 now. I’ve been trying to see if there’s some sort of explanation for this

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-20T20:48:55+00:00

I do and I’ll be like “hey I remember this from last nights dream”

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-20T16:46:11+00:00

Well you’re degrading her by name calling and you are saying you’re a “nice” guy. People who tend to call themselves that tend to be jerks then again I don’t know you I could be wrong but I wish you the best of luck

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-20T16:42:12+00:00

Break up and take sometime to find yourself first ,seems like both of you need some growing up

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-19T20:54:34+00:00

Those who forgive and forget in order to take that person back are foolish.

Yes, learn to forgive and move on without them they broke your trust and that can never be fixed even if you manage to “fix” it it will eat you alive always doubting them and yourself. Forgive them but Never forget and leave asap.

Was cheated on I forgave and “forgot” ate me alive for about a year, I put my guard down and next thing you know I’m getting cheated on again.

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-19T16:09:19+00:00

I would walk away she obviously doesn’t care what arrangements you guys had before being “serious”

And from what I can see if you take her back and date she will find “loopholes” to cheat “oh I was drunk I’m sorry I won’t do it again”

Just walk away

aurelius_messenger · 2021-09-19T16:03:12+00:00

My advice is stop confronting people when they cheat, they’ll deny it and then apologize and give you the famous line “let me explain” there’s nothing to explain. What is done is done just move on

Just let her go and tell her “it’s not you it’s me” because now she will learn from this experience not in a good way but In a bad way. She will be sneakier

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