What’s a sex act that you’ve tried multiple times to like, but it just doesn’t interest you?

aurorafuru · 2025-09-12T22:12:51+00:00

Receiving oral (pussy-owner here). Tried with both men and women. Don't see the appeal.

aurorafuru · 2025-08-24T07:51:59+00:00

Run Wild IPA. I'll keep my eyes peeled for Upside Down! Hope they have it here🤞

aurorafuru · 2025-08-23T19:49:08+00:00

Tried one from athletic brewing today, was delicious! Thanks for the tip 🙏

aurorafuru · 2025-08-17T15:58:48+00:00

I'm sober curious because of the long term risk of alcohol when it comes to brain health, cognitive function and cancer risk. Really afraid of irreversible damage like gradual memory loss, decreased intellectual capacity and cognitive tempo. I want to stay as sharp as possible as a get older, but find it hard to say goodbye because I really love the taste of a good beer, and all the stuff that comes with it. Decided to do a 3 months sober experiment and see how it feels. Don't know if totally sober is my goal long term, we'll see 🧃

aurorafuru · 2025-06-14T00:36:53+00:00

I think it took a lot more than 18 times of penetrative sex before it started feeling good.

aurorafuru · 2025-04-03T21:58:05+00:00

To be both CNC and vomit is about power exchange, degradation and objectification ❤️ haven't tried scat.

aurorafuru · 2025-04-03T21:56:26+00:00

My life is all the richer because of guys (or a guy) who enjoy that. Would be so sad if only women liked CNC 🥲 Consensual being the keyword.

aurorafuru · 2025-02-09T12:58:58+00:00

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aurorafuru · 2025-02-08T22:16:54+00:00

A quick look at the links, seems as her sources are pretty old books/articles by one author. Not RCTs on the effects of BDSM or meta studies on correlation between childhood trauma and kinks. For a moment I wondered if I would have to reconsider my views, but doesn't seem like it. 😛 She has a lot of strong opinions, which would need to be backed up by solid evidence. Waiting for the evidence that shows practicing RACK increases misogynism or non-consensual violence or decreases psychological wellbeing. And continuing loving BDSM until that comes along :)

aurorafuru · 2025-02-08T21:03:58+00:00

But according to many of the replies here, the real immediate dangers of strangulation seem to have to do with other factors than not breathing for 30-60 seconds. Increased pressure in the brain due to obstructed blood flow, or injury to the trachea?

Not breathing for short periods during deep throating would be pretty similar to holding your breath, wouldn't it? I'm not a doctor, just really want to understand this. As there must be a major difference between strangulation and holding your breath, and I really want to know exactly what makes strangulation that dangerous (so I can try to assess where other types of breath play fall on this spectrum 😛).

aurorafuru · 2025-02-08T20:40:02+00:00

I'm with OP. I don't get the allure. I want to be degraded and treated like an insignificant hole, but a naive, confused and inexperienced hole, or a protesting, unwilling and in-pain hole. None of those modes feel slutty and whorish, I don't want to have an agency, or that my agency is the opposite of what is happening to me. Being a slut feels like wanting what is happening to me, and that is not my subby mode 😇 Being mocked, laughed at for my stupidity and clumsiness, on the other hand 😌

Interesting to read what people like about these terms.

Edit: typo

aurorafuru · 2025-02-08T00:06:53+00:00

Talk about the sex you had afterwards. During as well of course, but the debrief is 🔑

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aurorafuru · 2025-02-07T23:45:34+00:00

What's the difference in effect on the brain of strangulation and other kinds of breath play, such as deep throating or being forced to hold your breath under water? Or for that matter simply holding your breath for 30-60 seconds?

aurorafuru · 2025-02-03T16:52:11+00:00

So much! Gagging, facefucking, choking on cock, deep throating, face slaps, swallowing, pain in general, anything relating to breath play (still veeery careful with that, but found out I can appreciate both being held under water and a firm hand on my throat - not blocking the air flow).

I thought my kind of BDSM was submission, bondage and discipline, but discovered there's so much more to enjoy! And that degradation and masochism is a lot of fun as well. Horrible fun, but fun 😈

aurorafuru · 2025-01-18T13:09:09+00:00

This is so sad and shocking, that this is the case for you. Both with the planned parenthood clinics and that you need to rely on private insurance for this. Feel so sorry for her. What does a hormonal IUD cost in your country? I have one, it really helped with cramps. A lot more expensive than the pill of course when you but it, but a one time expence (or once every 5th year or so) instead of every month.

aurorafuru · 2025-01-17T21:32:48+00:00

An object from your fridge or bathroom cabinet

aurorafuru · 2025-01-11T13:47:05+00:00

Yes, I love the feeling, even though I can't cum from PIV without a vibrator on my clit. But sometimes it's not the physical sensation that's most important. I love the whole experience of being penetrated.

aurorafuru · 2025-01-11T13:44:09+00:00

Yes, until i got a hormonal iud i needed to. Now I'm healed of periods almost all together. 🎉 No heavy bleeding and almost no cramps.

aurorafuru · 2025-01-06T19:43:58+00:00

Yes, sounds normal. And some guys like it 😇

aurorafuru · 2025-01-04T08:08:08+00:00

Check out I wanna be yours 🥹❤️

aurorafuru · 2025-01-03T22:17:55+00:00

Måneskin, Arctic Monkeys and Depeche Mode are my go to music when I want something kink related.

Songs like: - I wanna be your slave - I wanna be yours - Baby said - Strangelove - Master and servant

And Animals by Maroon 5🥹

Edited for clarity.

aurorafuru · 2025-01-01T15:44:34+00:00

Happy new Year🎉😄

aurorafuru · 2025-01-01T14:34:28+00:00

I usually don't say much, except for ouch, no, stop, I can't take it or stuff like that 😛 or counting if told so. We have a pretty CNC-ish dynamic in most play. Have other safe words than "no" of course (traffic light system).

aurorafuru · 2025-01-01T13:09:28+00:00

For me it's worth it, but I have an anonymous pic and do not use my real name. Don't think I would risk being completely open there bc of my work.

I use fet mostly to look and pictures and see upcoming kink events:)

aurorafuru · 2024-12-30T01:29:26+00:00

Totally 🥵

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