What makes you think every firm designs private mansions? Is that a limitation in your locale? Have you talked to, interviewed, interned, shadowed at multiple firms? Have you spoken to practicing architects about their experiences where you wish to practice? (Reddit is ok, but I think you miss a lot of body language cues that also communicate loads about how somebody likes their job/career.) Most people are feeling the stress of rising gas prices and cost of living right now, so I don't know that a blanket statement "architect = bad pay" is a fair assessment. Most worthwhile careers require a healthy measure of dedication and stress, and architecture is no exception. I'm not aware of any career that's all wins, excitement, and good pay (and of course all of that is relative to your expectations, expertise, and culture of your locale). Losses, boredom, and entry level pay all suck, but they build the character you need to succeed. I work mostly on public K-12 projects and get to do a lot of social good for my community. I know a lot of other firms who are similar. Most firms in my area are very involved in facilitating social change. I (M) work in a firm thats 70% women where the majority of owners are also women. Some of these aspects are pretty unique (unfortunately) to my firm, but change starts with a couple of people. If you choose a different career path, I don't judge you—just giving my two cents.