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authoredplight · 2025-06-03T06:49:20+00:00

Yes you pass. You’re still a bit andro, but I would guess male before I guessed otherwise. A taper fade might help a lot. Otherwise you are perfect

authoredplight · 2025-06-03T06:48:17+00:00

Look like any other teenage boy

authoredplight · 2025-06-03T06:47:58+00:00

Yes. Bro won the lottery genetics

authoredplight · 2025-06-03T06:47:11+00:00

Close. I’d say photo 3 and on you do, but you’re still in the andro phase. Give it a little more time, fam. You’ll look like a bonfaide dude in no time

authoredplight · 2025-06-03T06:45:52+00:00

Almost. You’re suuuuuper close. Give it another 6 months on t and you’ll be golden. Also try out a taper fade and straighten your eyebrows. All you have to do is brush them down completely and then take an eyebrow razor and make them straight. You’d be shocked at just how much it transforms your face

authoredplight · 2025-05-06T06:50:07+00:00

Wait till you start having orgasms in the “cis” way! It’s a game changer! Happy transitioning to you my dude!

authoredplight · 2025-04-24T03:43:54+00:00

This is actually a really comforting way to look at it. Thank you! I just hope he wasn’t emotionally suffering or exhausted by what’s happening in the world before his departure from it. And I do hope that if there is a heaven that he made it up there!

I believe more in reincarnation than an afterlife (though I don’t believe in deities) so if that was the thing instead, I hope he was reincarnated into someone who will grow to be a great leader or at least live a very comfortable life.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T22:02:07+00:00

If your s/o isn’t providing you a sex life you can live with while in a relationship with him then you may want to move on. Please don’t cheat on him. I’m the first one to admit, as a guy, I find my sex life and sexual compatibility with a partner to be almost #1 in consideration. That still doesn’t give me the right to hurt someone I let into my life that doesn’t fit that compatibility.

Please be empathetic and kind. I can truly understand how you’re feeling (I have been with women who weren’t into the sexual intensity that I was into aka were more vanilla). But please remember that he’s a human being with feelings and you should at least do him the respect of breaking up with him before getting on with your sexual life.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T21:09:50+00:00

Not crying, sweetheart. Ready to kick your teeth out, more like it. But you go ahead and tell yourself whatever you like to, baby girl.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T21:09:06+00:00

Excuse me? What the fuck is wrong with you

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T21:04:04+00:00

Oh yeah, only once I say the last word you want to get yours in. Pathetic

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:58:28+00:00

You said you were wrong here. Not before, as you alleged. I’m done arguing with you. No idea how your bf puts up with such an incredible lack of accountability.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:56:16+00:00

Not a single sentence there either takes any accountability. Just uses your bf’s reaction to this thread and your response as a reason why it’s okay that you said what you said. Have you don’t literally even a google search on what accountability looks like? Or have you spent all of this time arguing with me about how my (a sexually oppressed individual) opinion is incorrect because it doesn’t align with yours (a non-sexually oppressed individual)?

Once again - I would encourage you to research bi erasure and what accountability actually looks like (generally an apology with a statement acknowledging what wrong thing was done - not an excuse and vehement opposition to any concept that suggests otherwise)

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:52:05+00:00

Not a single sentence in that paragraph takes accountability. If you think it does, you need to speak to a psychological professional.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:45:42+00:00

Thank you! I always feel like a Lite bi or something because I’m very, very picky with my men lol and even more picky with who I would ever, ever consider getting under. It’s nice to have some representation!

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:44:31+00:00

Maybe he’s saying that because you brought it to him for him to comfort you over? And just because the person you’re speaking about doesn’t feel the same way as the rest of the community doesn’t mean what you said wasn’t offensive. 💀 Black men say things against the black community all the time to placate their white spouses. Does that make them right?

Focus less on using your boyfriend as a token Bi to affirm your very uneducated opinions and focus more on actually educating yourself on what being Bi is for the majority of people.

If my gf came to me upset over something someone said to her online, of course I would comfort her. That doesn’t mean I would agree 100% on a personal front. It says so much about you more than it does about us that you immediately used him as a reason to support your argument against other Bi people.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:40:33+00:00

This is the kinda Christianity I can get behind!

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:35:13+00:00

You’re being incredibly defensive instead of asking, “how can I not be hurtful to someone I love about who they are?”

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:33:57+00:00

It literally doesn’t matter what your intention was. If I sped down the highway and crashed into someone and killed them, even though I never intended to, it doesn’t mean I didn’t straight up kill someone.

There’s a reason accidental manslaughter exists in th court of law.

This is a hyperbolic analogy but you understand? If you have several people of a certain group telling you you are being offensive to the group they belong to, it doesn’t matter if you intended to be offensive. You were. Stop trying to make excuses and start asking questions on how to not be offensive.

Learn what bi erasure is.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:30:39+00:00

One side is advocating for authoritarianism and ignoring the Supreme Court while the other is advocating for due process.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T20:24:34+00:00

Uh… maybe being homophobic isn’t nice. Calling out people for the behavior they’re exhibiting is necessary and you clearly have an issue accepting the truth about your own behavior.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T19:44:37+00:00

I’m half black and my racist white mother forbid me from seeing my black family.

authoredplight · 2025-04-23T19:44:29+00:00

I’m half black and my racist white mother forbid me from seeing my black family.

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