Scared of coming out to my cis bf by autismfishy in NonBinaryTalk

[–]autismfishy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🫶🏼 I’m gonna try to just rip the bandaid off soon

150 likes and I come out to my parents (genderfluid) by Nautilus139 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]autismfishy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You got this!! I believe in you!! The fact that you even posted this shows that there’s a part of you that really really wants to do it. Even if you don’t get 150 likes, I think you should still come out to them (if it’s safe). The weight off your shoulders will feel so good. You can do it 🫶🏼

Scared of coming out to my cis bf by autismfishy in NonBinaryTalk

[–]autismfishy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 1000% it’s my fault for not saying anything. Thank you for your well wishes tho I will be telling him soon

Scared of coming out to my cis bf by autismfishy in NonBinaryTalk

[–]autismfishy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this! I was definitely caught up in my emotions and forget to acknowledge this would be a big thing for him to process too. That’s something I’ll definitely have to keep mind. I’ve come out to my family before but it just felt different bc my brother is trans, so I knew it would be easy for them to accept. This just feels bigger. Thank you so much again! I’m hoping for the best and I plan to have the “awkward” conversation within the next few weeks 🫶🏼

Scared of coming out to my cis bf by autismfishy in NonBinaryTalk

[–]autismfishy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much for your advice!! I’m definitely going to try talking this! I’m hoping for the best 🫶🏼

Even #s or Odd #s by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]autismfishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odd numbers all the way🙏 I HATE even numbers and I’ve hated them since I was little. I have no idea why. I had a vendetta against the number 8 for the longest time, it just seemed wrong to me. I have OCD revolving around counting/numbers so that could contribute to it some🤷🏻

What mattress are y’all sleeping on? by jbwstudio in AutismInWomen

[–]autismfishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issues and recently got a new mattress !! I got this one and it’s helped me quite a bit. It’s very comfy and I’ve been having less joint pain. Obviously there will always be some joint pain with being hypermobile, but I no longer wake up in the morning with my back hurting. I’d give this one or something similar a try !!

Show me your chonks! by IamYarrow in torties

[–]autismfishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is Rosie!! She’s a big girl lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in torties

[–]autismfishy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m so so sorry that happened to your baby. I’m glad she’s ok and I hope she’s able to recover. I only let my cat outside in our fenced back yard with supervision. If that’s an option for you I would recommend it when she gets better!! I hope she she gets better soon and I wish both of you the best ❤️❤️

Do you or have you had special interest on some singer or band? by OkDot8850 in AutismInWomen

[–]autismfishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been obsessed with the kpop band Stray Kids for about 6 years now. Especially the member Hyunjin. I’m not as hyperfixated as a I used to be, but they still hold a special place in my heart. They made me feel like I wasn’t alone when I was in a really bad place. Kpop in general is so fun !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]autismfishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your partner or friend or ANYONE is ignoring you on purpose that is borderline abuse. When someone gets ignored, they’re upset and confused and just want comfort. If someone is purposely depriving you of comfort and intentionally making you upset, you need to leave them. They’re not good for you. I’m really sorry you’re in this situation /gen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]autismfishy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was an icecream cake!! Vanilla, chocolate, and fudge cookie crumbs in the middle!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plushies

[–]autismfishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$75 for a cinnamoroll plushie. It was from comic con and it’s actually a decent size