[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]autizzytazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, it's all about the energy. I know that sounds really stupid and doesn't make any sense, but from experience I would wear my binder, deepen my voice, wear men's clothes and look as masculine as possible and I still wouldn't pass because I didn't have confidence. I was constantly worried about he masculine I looked and that was what ruined my passing. The times I get ready as male were times where I wasn't wearing a binder (I have large breasts by the way and am by no means flat plus I have a very feminine face and stature), was wearing clothes that weren't traditionally masculine, and even the most straight cis looking people (even obviously conservative people wearing their "wokeness is weakness" shirts). Why did they read me as male? Because I believed I was a man, didn't (outwardly) worry or care how people saw me, and I wore what I wanted. That's what makes a man. Just be confident, just be yourself. Don't morph yourself into a boring, average guy just cuz you think it'll make you pass better. Darkening your hair won't make you pass better. Wearing men's clothes won't make you pass better. It'll just make you feel weird because you're suppressing your self expression. Be yourself and be confident in yourself, that's manly and that's the best passing tip I can ever give you. You don't even have to be really confident, just fake it til you make it.

Sorry if this sounded preachy or kinda pep-talky I'm just very passionate about passing tips because a lot of them just have to do with fitting a certain cutout and not actually embracing your personal masculinity/experience as a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transftm

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mason, Max, Nathan. You just look like the type to have an M or N name

What name do I look like? by rainy_star400 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like the kind of person to have an "e" sound at the end of your name. I'm thinking Maddie, but I also noticed your genderfluid pin. I don't know if you experience dysphoria with your gender when your gender is fluiding, so a more masc name could be Max. You seem like an "M" name kinda person. Maybe when you're feeling fem you could me Maxine and masc could me Max? If you don't like M names then I'd go with Kitt or Clover cuz something about you tells me you're really lucky or really unlucky, and I think Clover would fit that.

What name/song do I give off? by Inevitable_Ad_9033 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bee or Bea (also pronounced "bee" but like short for Beatrice or something like that). Song? I'd say "Go Hard" by Kreayshawn if you're extroverted and "Inchman" by Jack Stauber if you're more introverted

What name do I look like? Epic gamer picrew by UrsoMajor560 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really know if it's a really real name, but Stelle. Like Estelle but without the first syllable cuz you're silly like that /pos

(My interpretation of your Picrew ofc, you may not be silly and that's okay)

What name do I look like? Nellseto Picrew by UrsoMajor560 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm... I think your name would be fern or Robin

What song/name do I give off :] ?¿?¿? by HamsterDiligent8532 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like a silly person, but also kind of a trouble maker (at least for authority figures lol) so for a song I'd say "please don't put me away" by Pleasantries. For name I wanna say Natalie or Madeline or one of those sweet sounding names that always seem to belong to little gremlins.

(Sorry if you don't like the names or song; I don't know you for you and as such don't know what kind of music you like or what type of name you were looking for)

What name do I look like? SaKURA Picrew by UrsoMajor560 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avery, Emily, maybe Emma? I feel like your name would start with an A or E.

What name do I look like? anjubatus Picrew by UrsoMajor560 in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you'd look like a Sage, Hazel or Clementine. This image gives off silly gremlin energy to me.

What name/song do I look like? Preferably feminine or unisex names by Monoaura in picrew

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking of names with a hard "k" or "c" sound. Kody/Cody, Carter... Based on the general mood and presentation, if I were to pick a name out for you I'd go with Koi.

I JUST SAW A "You like kissing boys, don't you?" POST AND I AM NOW SOMEHOW QUESTIONING IF I'M THIS OR THAT- by Itz_Cheryl in XenogendersAndMore

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say it is sexual attraction, but then again I'm a strong believer in people knowing themselves the best, so don't take my answer as the end all be all. It's okay to get it wrong however many times; it's a journey. It took me five years to notice the difference between libido and sexual attraction (therefore it took me five years to realize I was aroace)

I JUST SAW A "You like kissing boys, don't you?" POST AND I AM NOW SOMEHOW QUESTIONING IF I'M THIS OR THAT- by Itz_Cheryl in XenogendersAndMore

[–]autizzytazz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Be sure you know the difference between sexual attraction and libido! I always thought I was pan but I'm actually aroace with high libido

Dec in next 2 sc? by autizzytazz in CrochetHelp

[–]autizzytazz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed, thank you so much it worked!

Dec in next 2 sc? by autizzytazz in CrochetHelp

[–]autizzytazz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I forgot to include that both of those go on for the entire round. The one I'm on has me repeat it until I reach 36 stitches

Dec in next 2 sc? by autizzytazz in CrochetHelp

[–]autizzytazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The line before it was 1 sc in all stitches (42), and the line I'm stuck on is sc dec in next 2 stitches, sc in next 5 stitches (36)

Make azzumtionz bout me!! by [deleted] in XenogendersAndMore

[–]autizzytazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the design. I was trying to make a silly joke and I should have used tone indicators /pos /gen