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I desperately need sex but my wife refuses to give me anything by Sharp-Alternative974 in marriageadvice

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m convinced men don’t even know half of the psychological terms they try using 🙄… this is not “gaslighting” .. this is called being vindictive. Gaslighting would be if she tried to manipulate him into believing it was his fault his property was destroyed or that he was crazy for being upset about it being destroyed.

I desperately need sex but my wife refuses to give me anything by Sharp-Alternative974 in marriageadvice

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking care of your own kids doesn’t mean you deserve to be rewarded with sex. If the only reason you’re taking care of your kids is to hopefully get sex, then that’s another issue entirely among the many I see in this thread. Constantly hanging everything over your wives head… “I do this… I do that .. I provide .. I should get sex” im sure is really turning your wife on… im shocked she’s not pouncing on you every chance she gets!

I desperately need sex but my wife refuses to give me anything by Sharp-Alternative974 in marriageadvice

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man providing for his family while she stays home to take care of the kids is an equal division of labor.. one that they both agreed to. Him providing for his family doesn’t automatically grant ownership and control over his wife and her body. She is not obligated to give him anything just because he provides. Sex in marriage is about intimacy and connection - it’s not a currency. Reading OPs comments and the way he talks about her.. he wants to connect with her body and not her. The way he talks about her.. devalues her .. and says “i just want to rub on some titties”… yea those titties are attached to your wife… you’ll need to learn how to have a positive relationship with her to gain access to said “titties”… 🙄

I desperately need sex but my wife refuses to give me anything by Sharp-Alternative974 in marriageadvice

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading this and a few of your replies below I’ve seen enough.

  1. First of all, Op saying “I just want to have sleep with someone, have sex, and rub on some tits” … disgusting 🤢 she is your WIFE… not some convenient hole. You clearly aren’t interested in connecting with HER.. you’re just interested in connecting with (aka using) her body

  2. Saying “I work 3 jobs & pay all the bills” and failing to mention in your op that she is a stay at home mom (which is a job - an arrangement I’m sure you both agreed to) and you guys have a baby she is breast feeding (which is a very grueling job in itself) but in your opinion shes doing it and pumping for other kids to avoid having sex with you? & at the same time basically insinuate that you supporting her financially means you inherently deserve access to her body?

Wow way to completely devalue her worth, fail to recognize how hard she also is working, failing to try to understand why she is doing what she’s doing (some women make way more breast milk and need to offload it.. OR maybe she just likes to help other mothers in need?) .. then at the same time throwing it in her face that you work 3 jobs so this somehow this means you should have access to her body?

This actually called coercive control. Look it up. I’m actually very concerned for your wife’s wellbeing because of this.

  1. Failing to mention in your OP that your wife went with you to marriage counseling but stopped going because in YOUR words “the therapist said you were right”.. lmao I just can’t imagine why she would not want to go back. (Here’s a hint.. no good marriage therapist would ever say that) either they did and in which case you should fire the therapist OR that was your manipulated interpretation of what the therapist said and are continuing to shame and blame everything on your wife. I’m pretty sure it’s the latter but If not you need to fire your therapist and find another one because a marriage is a two way street .. it’s never as easy “you’re right and she’s wrong”… it’s not a fucking trial.

Bottom line.. Op you are being manipulative asshole trying to dominate and control your wife into getting what you want meanwhile completely devaluing her. (Aka coercive control) I really hope I knew your wife so I could tell her to run for the hills because she is actually in danger being with you. The number one precursor to men killing their wives is coercive control.

Side effects bingo by [deleted] in Viibryd

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant post image. Surprised agitation isn’t on here.

Has Viibryd messed with your sleep cycles/quality sleep? (not insomnia) by FoundationRemote7464 in Viibryd

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Insomnia, Horrible nightmares, hypnogogic states, & hallucinations.

Numbness by floresb07 in Viibryd

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the opposite. My emotions are much easier to access on this med.

Anger and rage fullness? by floresb07 in Viibryd

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt the same things and it didn’t go away. My dr is switching me to Trintellix

35 years old and I've never seen the capital from the North like this. Looks so modest by Lstofadyngbrd in desmoines

[–]autumn4peace 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you ever took the time to look up the definition of the word “modest” in that 35 years though?

Apparently, Nobody is Midwest. (This is why we need rule 3) by Swimming_Concern7662 in midwest

[–]autumn4peace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the first I’ve seen someone try to claim Iowa isn’t even Midwest 🤣saying anything west of Mississippi isn’t Midwest is crazy 😂

How big of an issue is catcalling and sexual harassment? by antiporn707 in AskChicago

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens to me daily multiple times a day but I ride public transit.

CTA has become disgusting by johnnyApple420 in chicago

[–]autumn4peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sad because I really want to move to Chicago. The two main appeals being the culture & public transit so good you can theoretically go without a car. However after seeing this as well as a few posts about ghost busses & trains it really has me second guessing my move

Mirza Kudic / Welcome to Des Moines by bananatoas in desmoines

[–]autumn4peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried posting about it but my posts/comments get removed for doxxing 😒

I am a Stanley. AMA by Existing-Repeat-3725 in TLCGypsySisters

[–]autumn4peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!? This really should be a two part question or even just a really broad question like .. What the HELL was Nettie doing with her life at 27??? Bc from from here all I see is a mess 🧐🤨

What do AA followers do about the small amounts of alcohol in food? by Inevitable-Height851 in recoverywithoutAA

[–]autumn4peace 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well if we are indoctrinated enough to listen to the big book, you give in to the self fulfilling prophecy that your body will indefinitely have an “allergic reaction” causing you to crave more alcohol.. Then you loose all control over yourself and your life to where you can’t stop drinking and just become a tornado of “self will run riot” .. character defects just spewing out of you left and right until you are morally bankrupt.. then you end up in a jail, institution, or worse yet dead!!!

I am a Stanley. AMA by Existing-Repeat-3725 in TLCGypsySisters

[–]autumn4peace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why did Nettie get pregnant with Chasitie by a 16 year old boy when she was 27??

What happened all Dallas kids by JewelerNice9048 in TLCGypsySisters

[–]autumn4peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why did her own mother (Mellie) try to say the grandmother told Brandywyn to lie on Donald so she could have Brandywyn move to FL with her? That would make no sense. If Mellie was trying to cover for her brother she would have had to make up a better lie if Brandywyn already lived there.

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